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This Is Why Women Love A Man With Purpose

by Zardoz on November 3, 2010, Revised on: February 25th, 2012

She gawks at me with doe eyes, trapped in the headlight and willing to get nailed. Then the eternal question: “Zardoz, what do you do?

Well I’m a dating coach.” I say, and suddenly feel air being sucked out of the room. All mouths are silent and eyes are upon me. A trickle of urine flows down my leg.

Just kidding.

Many guys get into the game for the sole purpose of bringing more women into their life. Some excel in other avenues like money, career, health, school, social circle… but I find many, many are lost, with no purpose, poor health, little money (they go into debt for a Bootcamp) and no close friends. Hrrrm.

So why does having purpose in life help you pick up chicks?

Don’t you simply need a cool outfit and super tight game? Well…yeah that helps. I mean, I could probably go out and grab some low self esteem drunk chick, slap her butt a few times and bang her in the toilet. Hang on….I’ll finish this article later…I’m going out.

Ok I’m back.

About purpose. I have mine. I’m a writer, and a dating coach, a good friend, lover, musician, poet, entrepreneur, workoutaholic, etc. Let’s run a fantasy scenario to see how this sense of purpose helps me when I’m out.

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santosh November 12, 2010 at 1:43 am

hi i am in love with my maternal uncle’s daughter but the fact is that i have seen her but she has not seen me, tell me how to propose her.

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Franzine December 2, 2010 at 11:58 pm

so you’re saying you’re in love with your cousin? kinda outrageous if you ask me, there are so many other girls out there and aos offers enough advice on how you can get another girl (other than your cousins!)

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Nancy December 3, 2010 at 1:58 pm

I always look for a man with a purpose… passion is the most appealing thing to me.

If he loves what he does, then I’m in.

It’s the guys that just bum around that annoy me. No drive!

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KK December 3, 2010 at 3:34 pm

Feeling so challenged yet glad for finding this. Thank you

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