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Page 1: Where To Meet Women That Are Attractive Page 2: The Classic Places Page 3: Subtle PlacesWhen I was younger, one thing had me simply stupefied: why was it that some guys seemed to have an endless stream of women pouring into their lives? I looked at my social circle and thought: “Where the heck does this fella get them?” It took many years for me to understand one thing: the real question is not where to meet women. There are ways to meet girls anywhere you please! Let me give you some examples.
Look outside your house
No, I’m serious here. Let’s talk about the basics. Open your window and look outside. Do you see a street? Yes? Good. I can tell you, women walk around in that street. Right there, in plain daylight!
You need to get over the idea that you need to have a special time and place to meet women. It should become an integral part of your daily routines. Now here’s the catch: you don’t just start doing that from one moment to the next. You need to practice. Start here:
Look in places you like
Get a good idea of your interests, and think of places that fit them. You’re into music? Find music stores or live venues. You’re into reading? Go to libraries. Chances are you’re already doing that anyway, right? Well, my hunch is that women who share your interests do the same.
Approaching them there is easy because the context is provided, and you feel at home in the place. This is your kinda venue! You need to develop some intuition about where you are and what kind of approach is sensible, however. A library or music store is not a place where men usually approach women. A woman peeking into a book on photography is not in party mode, she’s checking out a book. Don’t assume she expects to be approached. Instead, pace her reality:
“I noticed you were looking at…”
“That photo is really cool…”
“I was thinking of reading that book…”
Situations and Scenarios 
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hey,
That’s a very good topic to talk about, where to find women ? have been my life question for a long time, i also don’t know, what to talk about? it’s really hard to talk to a girl in front of all of these people, isn’t it ? Any way i got my first lessons from here, and voila, i am now the most popular boy in my neighborhood, boys actually come and take advices from me on how to flirt with a girl or to talk about, thanks very much, but if can i ask you some thing, please tell us about how to make a girl flirt with you ? That’s really is what every guy want.
Nice Topic From Nice Writer but there is a question:
In the Part Of Approaching anywhere … what if the woman i went to talk disappointed me by being silent or any thing else like this????
women are everywhere, but you need the smarts to catch them anywhere, anytime
man your a genius, I’d love to have chat about some of these topics at a bar. Cool dude. I’ve learned a lot about women and life just from browsing your articles. The more I read and use your advice the more confident I feel. A lady a work said I was a 8.5 or 9.0 out of a 10 in looks department. I’m definitely attractive to women and she says I’m out going and funny. The more I learn and apply the better person I’ll be in general. Soon I’ll be the ultimate chick magnet!