If there’s one common re-occurrence in the world of dating, it’s the fact that seemingly all guys get to a point where they say: “There’s just this one girl… I love this girl, you have to help me!”. Unfortunately, most of the time these guys haven’t even talked to this girl yet! So let’s make it clear right now, if you’re in love with a girl and you haven’t talked to her yet, then it’s not love. It might be lust, infatuation, attraction and possibly even obsession, and I’ll tell you, all of these things are very common and normal but it’s not love.

The most comforting thing is to realize you aren’t alone.

That’s right, there are hundreds of other guys that feel the same way that you do, hopelessly ‘in love’ with a girl and they don’t have the slightest clue on how to proceed in order to attract, seduce and make her fall in love with them. Don’t worry though, there’s hope and I’m going to show you how you can attract the girl of your dreams.

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Even if you’re not super attractive and don’t possess a magnetic aura that attracts women, you can still run into the kind of situation I encountered in a club before I started studying attraction. I was on the dance floor when this cute lady came up and danced close to me, smiling and initiating heavy eye contact. She had done the approach, and frankly, I didn’t know what to do. I blew it – and so could you, even if you’ve been practicing your seduction skills for a while now! It’s one thing to work on your attractiveness and confidence, but are you prepared for what happens when you are successful with women? What happens when a woman approaches a man ?

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Do you know how the most successful TV soaps capture their audiences’ attention and keep them coming back? They set up unresolved mysteries that leave you hanging, wondering what’s going to happen next. It’s a simple, but immensely powerful technique: whenever a plot thread is resolved, another one has already been set up which will keep you, the viewer, tuning in for every new episode. It gets you hooked.

You can use this technique in your own life, too – for talking to women. Once you learn how to capture a woman’s attention with a mystery, you’re likely keep her engaged all the way until you resolve it, and in the meantime, you get to do (almost) whatever you want. In this article, I’ll walk you through an example interaction.

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If you’re trying to learn about women, then one of the absolute worse things you can do is pick up a popular magazine and read the dating articles in them. When I say dating, I mean that very loosely because you’d be better off listening to your little sister in most cases. She probably knows more about dating and attracting women than some of the authors of these popular magazines do.

Why is this?

Well my theory is that they hire writers right out of college based on writing skills. That’s great and it will sure make your article sound nice, but the knowledge they are teaching the world won’t hold up for a second in real life.

So let’s have some fun and dissect one of these articles.

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Wouldn’t it be so much easier to pick up girls if they were by themselves more often? You’ll find single ones when you’re out in daylight, but at night, when you go to bars or clubs, they’ll likely be in groups of two: there’s one girl you really fancy, and then there’s the best friend she’s out with.

Many men wonder how to deal with the best friend when picking up a girl, but the solution lies in the approach to the “problem”: once you stop seeing a best friend as an obstacle, you realize that there’s nothing to “deal with” here, nobody to “handle”, “manage” or “dispose of”. The truth is, the best friend will present an opportunity for you, and if you embrace that, you’re on the right track.

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I love original stuff, but this is definitely not the way to get your girlfriend back. Good for laughs though!

The greatest question. The eternal enigma. Men have asked this question throughout the ages but never have they managed to find an answer that pleases them. What is she thinking? It is a secret guarded jealously by the best players and ladies men, one that scientists have tried to crack for years. Now, I will give you all the tools that you will need to stun her and make her believe that you are so in tune with her that you are capable of almost reading her mind. Read closely gentlemen, because I am about to teach you how to read a woman’s mind.

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Have you ever laid your eyes on a group of really hot girls at a party or in a bar? Say, at least four of them? It’s like Christmas, only you don’t get to unwrap them, because you can’t approach a group of girls just like that, right? It’s too awkward, randomly breaking into a group. And scary. But seriously, it’s tempting, and you’d really like to get to know these girls. You’re in luck, because I’m here to tell you that it’s possible – and I’ll give you tools to do it! First step: get a friend to burn your money if you don’t approach.

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Ever been to a party where one dude told amazing stories and entertained people all night? Great comedians do the same thing: Eddie Izzard, Robin Williams or Chris Rock can deliver awesome stories on the spot, often improvised, and in a captivating manner. They know how to tell a story and consequently they’re the life of the party! But how do they do it? There’s a secret language of great storytellers that many of us don’t recognize: it’s not so much that they have cool stories to tell – it’s how they tell them. Storytelling is an art, and there are means of making any story fascinating, funny, captivating and attractive.

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It’s startling how many people believe they’re bad-looking or unattractive: I’ve known some really hot guys and girls who were deeply unhappy about features of their bodies or faces. There’s no reason for that! The fact is, whatever you tell yourself about your appearance will work either as a limiting or empowering belief, and that’s what will either block your or pave your way to success. No matter what your bodily or facial features are, you can always spice up your looks in just a few easy steps: invest some time and effort into your appearance, and you’ll not only gain a new kind of confidence, but also realize that those few extra pounds or your prominent nose are no obstacle at all when it comes to attracting women.

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