Bars, parties, clubs, even the streets: they used to be my daily and nightly scenes of disappointment, the places where I would gather up all my courage, talk to beautiful women, fail and get discouraged to even try again. It’s enough to spark that ever-present, debilitating approach anxiety that keeps you from talking to women more and more often. Like for most of us out there, it’s one of the meanest demons you have to defeat before you can become truly good with women: and one day to do it is by taking small, easily manageable steps. Here’s what you’ll learn if you start approaching one woman a day.

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The audience was in tears that night. No, we weren’t crying – we were laughing, because that woman was on fire. It was an evening at a comedy bar, and this female comedian’s delivery and vibe swept us away with laughter. Now fancy this: her jokes were actually pretty lame – but still, the guy after her couldn’t captivate us at all even though his punch lines were, objectively, much funnier than hers.

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Some spend their entire lives trying to figure out what women want from men, and it seems like a constant uphill battle. There are so many theories, stereotypes and role models, and how they clash with what we see around us! The media perpetuate the image of the self-made queen that demands respect from men, but in reality, women seem to want rude behavior and expensive gifts – or do they? We wreck our brains trying to figure it out – and in the process, everybody loses. But it could be so simple! Imagine a world in which women could simply be feminine, and men masculine. Today, let’s explore what that means.

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Boy, there was a period in my life when I was terribly inhibited around strangers and even friends. I would worry about how everybody perceived me, how I looked, acted and especially what I said. Even at parties or in clubs, bars or gatherings, outings and events, I obsessed about behaving “correctly”. When others let loose and went crazy, danced, sang and jumped around, I would freeze up. Guess how good I was with women? I sucked.

So when I started learning about seduction and “game”, one of my biggest challenges was to break down my psychological barriers. Let me share how I did it: this is how you can overcome your inhibitions, get rid of approach anxiety and live a better life.

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It’s a sunny spring afternoon. As you walk home from work, you reach the bridge where you cross the river every day, but today, something’s different: a young woman is standing at the railing, taking photos. She wears bright, colourful clothes and a little flower in her red hair that shines in the sun. Boy, she looks gorgeous. And you wish you had a way to talk to her right there and then.

If all you’ve learned about “game” applies to night clubs, bars and parties – social surroundings – then it might seem daunting to approach a beautiful girl during the day. In reality though, it’s actually much easier to approach women during the day because they aren’t constantly being hit on by other men.

So let’s get to it, I’m going to explain to you how do you meet women during the day.
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Does it ever occur to you how sometimes, huge insights and breakthroughs come from the smallest, most ordinary everyday observations? There’s a little moment where it “clicks”, and a light flashes on somewhere in your head: it’s an epiphany!

Let me tell you about an epiphany that I had: this is how, almost by pure chance, I discovered a surefire way to get a woman’s attention by just walking up to her and saying one simple line.

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Sitting in front of your console all day? Spending your free time watching movies by yourself? Well, if you want to attract women at some point, it’s time you make a change there. We have given you lots of ways to tweak your personality in the past, but it’s time we talked about how you can create a lifestyle that women find attractive. Let me introduce you to some ways to exhibit your masculine personality traits.

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Hey, did you ever go out of your way to convince a girl of your personal qualities and assets? Take a date for example: she looks at you from the other side of her coffee mug with mixture of friendliness and waning interest as you tell her all about your job, your solid character and your possessions.

You see, what you are doing there is called qualification: you’re trying to qualify yourself to her. What most men don’t know is that this very process, if it happens the other way around, can be a major attraction trigger for a woman: once she has to actually work for your approval, she’ll get quite excited about you. Now, how do you get to a point where you are qualifying a girl?

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There are various different ways to approach a woman and one of the prominent questions in the seduction community is about which is best: Direct approaches or indirect approaches? I’ll be shedding some light on the subject and explaining why they both have merit in spite of being quite different.

If you look around, you’ll find many professional dating coaches, some of the best in the world, that strongly encourage either direct or indirect openers.

Sure it works for them, but will it work for you?

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As many of you have already noticed, Art of Seductions has begun doing e-mail coaching for guys looking to improve with women. So far the feedback’s been quite unbelievable and I’d like to thank you for all the kind words you guys have had!

Thanks to all the guys telling me about all their success, it feels great to know that I’m making a difference in your life.

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