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Reading Popular Articles on Askmen Will Make You Fail With Women

July 15, 2009

If you’re trying to learn about women, then one of the absolute worse things you can do is pick up a popular magazine and read the dating articles in them. When I say dating, I mean that very loosely because you’d be better off listening to your little sister in most cases. She probably knows [...]

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Dealing With The Best Friend When Picking Up a Girl

July 13, 2009

Wouldn’t it be so much easier to pick up girls if they were by themselves more often? You’ll find single ones when you’re out in daylight, but at night, when you go to bars or clubs, they’ll likely be in groups of two: there’s one girl you really fancy, and then there’s the best friend [...]

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How To Read A Woman’s Mind

July 6, 2009

The greatest question. The eternal enigma. Men have asked this question throughout the ages but never have they managed to find an answer that pleases them. What do girls think about? It is a secret guarded jealously by the best players and ladies men, one that scientists have tried to crack for years. Now, I [...]

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How To Approach A Group Of Girls

July 2, 2009

Have you ever laid your eyes on a group of really hot girls at a party or in a bar? Say, at least four of them? It’s like Christmas, only you don’t get to unwrap them, because you can’t approach a group of girls just like that, right? It’s too awkward, randomly breaking into a [...]

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How To Tell A Story That Captivates a Woman’s Attention

June 25, 2009

Ever been to a party where one dude told amazing stories and entertained people all night? Great comedians do the same thing: Eddie Izzard, Robin Williams or Chris Rock can deliver awesome stories on the spot, often improvised, and in a captivating manner. They know how to tell a story and consequently they’re the life [...]

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Spice Up Your Looks In 5 Easy Steps

June 22, 2009

It’s startling how many people believe they’re bad-looking or unattractive: I’ve known some really hot guys and girls who were deeply unhappy about features of their bodies or faces. There’s no reason for that! The fact is, whatever you tell yourself about your appearance will work either as a limiting or empowering belief, and that’s [...]

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How To Talk To Any Girl In Any Situation

June 19, 2009

Wouldn’t it be great if you knew to talk girls in regardless of the situation? In a big city, you’ll see beautiful women every day – in the streets, on train platforms, in supermarkets, in cafés and restaurants. Most of us are really afraid to approach them: it might seem inappropriate, awkward, intrusive, she might [...]

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Make a Girl Fall in Love the Minute you Start Talking to Her

June 11, 2009

Wouldn’t it be amazing if there was few words you could whisper to make a girl fall in love with you within seconds of you approaching her? “Your beauty reminds me of autumn leaves falling ….” Well forget it! No poetic (feel free to laugh at my failed poetic attempt), cheesy line or even smart [...]

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How To Impress A Girl When You’re Not Rich and Famous

June 4, 2009

Ever wonder why so many women adore Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp? No? Well go figure, that’s because it’s freaking obvious. They’re famous, sexy and rich. Chances are that you, on the other hand, are neither famous or rich, in fact, even your good looks haven’t gotten you anywhere lately. But what if I told [...]

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How To Use Body Language To Captivating A Woman

June 1, 2009

I’ll tell you something about myself. I’m a guy who’s good with words: I have a great vocabulary and can put my thoughts into expertly-crafted sentences. Yet here’s the problem I used to have in the past: Even when I was in a great conversation with a girl, I wasn’t able to keep her interest. [...]

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Two Mistakes That Prevent Men From Ever Finding Their “Dream Girl”

May 27, 2009

Usually my older students, the ones that have been practicing seduction for one or two years and have reasonable success with women, tend to ask me: “Why don’t I have the girl of my dreams in my life yet? It seems as if all the girls in my life have flaws that just make them [...]

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How To Make Beautiful Women Fall For You

May 23, 2009

When it comes to attraction, us guys are very physical. We go straight for looks, so most of us automatically react in the following fashion when we see an exceptionally beautiful woman: “She’s so ravishing. I’ve got to have her!” Tell you what: bad move. There are ways of making pretty girls fall for you, [...]

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How To Make Her Feel Comfortable And Trust You

May 18, 2009

Every man desires to be that attractive guy that women want. We spend hours upon hours trying to figure out what is the ideal way to attract a woman, to get her interested in you. Yet, most men overlook a simple fact when they pursue their seduction education. Regardless of how attracted a woman is [...]

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How To Make Every Conversation Memorable

May 14, 2009

Let me tell you about a small moment out of my day. I’m friends with a fun girl at work, and we joke around now and again. The other day as I passed by her – I couldn’t think of a thing to say or do to get her attention so I gave her a [...]

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Get a Girl’s Number Without Asking for It

April 28, 2009

One of the first things that guys want to learn when improving their skills with women is how to get a girl’s number. As if getting her number was a way of measuring how successful you were with a woman, they wonder why these girls don’t answer their phone calls or why they are having [...]

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The Effects of Pickup on Men

April 17, 2009

Over the last four years, the entire seduction industry and pickup in general has become increasingly mainstream. Reality shows have popped up that revolve around attracting women and a slew of attention has fallen on the seduction community, even going so far as to have an entire segment on Doctor Phil dedicated to it. Most [...]

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Chris Calo’s Is On Twitter

April 16, 2009

A quick little update on things happening with the site… First, we have a new author coming shortly and he’s going to be providing us with some really great articles on women. I’m really excited and can’t wait to read the articles myself because he’s always coming up with brand new insights and ideas. Second, [...]

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A Guy’s Guide to Spring Love

April 2, 2009

The best time of the year for picking up women is, as you guessed it, is in the spring. So if you’ve been putting off approaching women during the winter now’s the time to really put everything you’ve learned into practice. But why is it that in spring is the prime time for hooking up? [...]

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What To Say After You Say Hello

March 14, 2009

A problem that many men seem to suffer from is not knowing what to say after they’ve said “Hello”. If once you’ve initiated conversation your mind goes blank and you don’t know what to say then what follows is a guide for you. Don’t worry, we’ve all been there before from it at some point, [...]

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How To Get A Girl to Like You A Lot

March 9, 2009

Here’s a secret, if you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, then do the exact opposite of what you’ve probably been doing in the past. Why? Well for starters, if you actively try to get someone to like you, chances are the exact opposite will happen! Have you ever chased a dog [...]

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Attracting Women of High Quality Into Your Life

February 25, 2009

A few days ago, the Oscars just played. Men all across the world had the opportunity to see some of the most beautiful women in the world dressed in their finest and looking their best walking alongside some of the most macho men you have ever seen. It’s highly likely that the thought I wish [...]

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How To Be Confident With Women When You’re Shy

February 17, 2009

How to be confident with women is probably one the most basic skills you need to master in order to be successful with women. It’s the foundation for attraction and at the same time, it’s the advice that everyone gives. “Just be confident” they say… sure. If it was that easy, wouldn’t everyone be doing [...]

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How To Use Kino Effectively

February 10, 2009

There is nothing more intimate than the human touch. In truth, we are just like dogs and cats – we love to be petted and caressed. However, there is a certain skill to knowing when and where to touch a woman, and this skill could be the difference between being the naturally sexy guy and [...]

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The Power of Your Social Circle

January 20, 2009

Everyone’s seen it when they go out – that group of people sitting together, making the most noise in the bar and seeming to have the most fun. The women are beautiful, the men are charismatic and you begin to wonder to yourself, how can I be in that party? The reason people find groups [...]

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Things To Do With Your Girlfriend

January 7, 2009

If you’re like most guys, then it’s likely you’re at a point where you’ve run out of new and exciting things to do with your girlfriend. You can only watch so many movies per week in a relationship, and if that number is already above 2 then I’d suggest switching it up a little. After [...]

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Improve Your Game – 5 Small Changes

December 17, 2008

Like many people, when I first started learning about how to get good with women, I had no idea I was making as many mistakes as I was. These mistakes weren’t huge, blatant things about me that needed an entire overhaul – no, it was the small, subtle things that simply added up to make [...]

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Pick Up Guide

December 2, 2008

Even though I’d like to think I’ve always had confidence, a huge backbone and the guts to do whatever I put my mind to, it’s probably not the truth. You see, none of this stuff comes easy; you have to work at it. My ability has always been to simply complicated concepts, so for you, [...]

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5 Ways to Meet Women During Cold Winter Months

November 17, 2008

Unless you live in the sunny southern hemisphere, you might have noticed something recently. The leaves falling from the trees, the sudden drop in temperature and the rise in women wearing more clothes. Usually you might think about hibernating during the cold months… but not this year. This year, you’re going to meet women during [...]

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How To Be The Man That Women Desire

October 29, 2008

We’ve all seen the movies with The Man in it. I’m talking about the James Bonds, the Clint Eastwoods and the Indiana Jones. The hero of the story always seems to be the person we want to be – suave, confident and always having that witty response to get the woman. It is not that [...]

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How to Connect With Women – Wavelength Concept

October 22, 2008

One of the most important things a guy can learn when adventuring in the domain of seduction is to learn how to connect with women. If you can create an undeniable connection with a woman that you’ve just met, then your chances of success skyrocket ten folds. Even if your approach, conversation skills and overall [...]

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How To Make Her Fall In Love With You

October 11, 2008

There is probably some girl in your life that evokes very strong feelings in you. Perhaps you’ve asked yourself this question a couple of times already, wondering how to make her fall in love with you the next time she sees you. It’s a question that many men ask themselves yet fear to seek advice [...]

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How To Get a Girl To Like You By Creating Attraction

October 4, 2008

A simple trick that solves the age old question: “how to get a girl to really like you” is to remember the little details and then casually insert them into your conversation at a later date. The problem is that guys tend to remember larger things and women appreciate the details. Do you remember what [...]

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What To Talk About With Girls

September 24, 2008

You’ve just done your approach perfectly. The girl is beautiful and all her attention is on you as she waits expectantly for you to say something to her. You open your mouth, suave and smooth like James Bond when you suddenly realize – you have no idea what to talk about with girls. Sound like [...]

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How To Pick Up A Girl In Class

September 16, 2008

The bell rings and you walk into class. You look around at all the beautiful girls around you, in front of you, beside you, and you begin to think… “If only I knew how to pick up a girl in my class…” Picking up girls in school is not harder than picking up girls elsewhere. [...]

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What Do Girls Want?

September 9, 2008

If there’s one question that frustrates most men, it’s “What do girls want?” Well first let me tell you, most of them don’t know what they want themselves! However, it’s not because they don’t know what they want that they don’t want something (try reading that sentence 2-3 times quickly!). Girls have many physical and [...]

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Cocky and Funny

September 8, 2008

So what is cocky and funny? The concept that’s been popularized by the famous dating book Double Your Dating has a lot men wondering exactly what it is and how to use it successfully to attract women. In reality, it’s quite simple and quite self explanatory. The cocky concept is to be slightly arrogant, which [...]

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How To Get A Girl’s Attention

August 17, 2008

You have the personality. You have all the tactics and routines. You have everything you’ll ever need to seal the deal. Yet, unless you know how to get a girl’s attention, everything you’ve been working on will be useless. So here’s the question – how can you get her attention?! What women, and in fact [...]

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I Should Have Kissed Her

August 4, 2008

Do you often find yourself thinking… “Ahh what a great night but why didn’t I kiss her” ? If so, then you’re not alone. It seems as if one of the biggest regrets that guys have during dates is not knowing when to make that move. It’s not your fault either, it’s a daunting task [...]

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How to Look Good For Men

July 30, 2008

Listen, if you really to know how to look good, just take a look around you and notice what you like in people. Then, notice the trends… you’ll start noticing that most good looking people have similarities that go beyond just what kind of shoes they are wearing. (although that’s important too) I think many [...]

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The One, Your Ideal Girl

July 18, 2008

You look at her – the way her lips move when she speaks, the way her laugh sounds so joyous. That one special girl that’s always been different from all the others, the one that, you just know, will make everything all right if you could just be with her. But how? What can you [...]

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Girl Tips That Will Save You

June 25, 2008

Over the years I have stumbled upon a lot of girl tips with a lot of fluff and no substance. Often the same rehashed few pieces of advice are borderline useless, if not completely wrong. Here I promise to cut the fat and present you the tips you’ll appreciate when interacting with women. Be genuine [...]

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Become A Player That Gets All The Women

June 23, 2008

Every man at some point in his life has dreamed of becoming the legendary “player” – the man who has the abundant choice of women. In today’s day and age, so many resources are available on how to become a player. So why aren’t there more men out there with the women they want? The [...]

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How To Talk to Girls

June 21, 2008

As a guy, learning how to talk to girls can be a challenging experience or it can be an enjoyable one. Would you agree that being able to carry a proper conversation with a girl would solve a LOT of problems ? I know many guys agree that this is one of the most neglected [...]

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Pick Up Lines – A Misunderstood Technique

June 14, 2008

Pickup lines are one of the most misunderstood, misused techniques of meeting and attracting beautiful women. All over the world, people have the misconceived idea of a magic “pickup line” that will cause a woman to throw off her clothes and jump into bed with you. I’m sorry to tell you that that is probably [...]

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How to Attract A Woman

June 8, 2008

If you’ve ever wondered how to attract a woman as a man and you’re searching for a magic formula that will solve everything, then stop. The answer to attracting women is simple: Be attractive. Sure, that’s easier said than done, so what make a man attractive in the eyes of a woman? So what do [...]

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Approach Anxiety Solutions

June 6, 2008

All of us have felt approach anxiety at one time or another. You see that girl from across the room and you think to yourself, “I want to meet her.” You get ready to approach when suddenly your chest constricts. Your palms feel sweaty and thoughts start running rapidly through your mind. What if she [...]

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Eliminate Approach Anxiety Forever

June 5, 2008

Walking up to my third girl of the evening, my mates look at me and wonder how I can remain so calm. In an old style Irish pub, where every group seems to be keeping to themselves, I stand out as being only person who seems to be talking to everyone. Fortunately I figured out [...]

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How To Talk To A Woman

June 1, 2008

It’s a shame that most men don’t know a thing about how to talk to a woman. With these few basic guidelines, you’ll be chatting it up with all the most attractive women in no time. The trick with talking to girls is with the subtleties. The first rule of talking with women is to [...]

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How To Start A Conversation With Cute Girls

May 28, 2008

The number one rule on how to start a conversation with a girl you just met is easy: keep it simple, keep it fun. When you talk to a woman for the first time, remember that she doesn’t know you and anything too intense will push her away. Instead, use these conversation starters to get [...]

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Picking Up Girls – The Easy Way

May 24, 2008

If everyone was picking up girls on a consistent basis, there wouldn’t be many left now would there? It’s a good thing that most men don’t know how easy it is to pick up a girl and are frightened to even attempt! The definition of a successful pickup would be to engage in a new [...]

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How To Get A Girlfriend For Men

May 20, 2008

You know it’s funny that a lot of guys who aren’t even dating on a regular basis are trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend when instead they should be learning how to get a girl’s number. If you’re clever, you already spotted step 1 to getting a girlfriend: go on dates. More [...]

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How To Make A Girl Want You

May 19, 2008

If the biggest problem that you’re encountering is how to make a girl want you, then you’re at the right place. It’s likely that you feel that women don’t usually like you when they meet you… and that somehow you have to convince them to like you in return. This simply isn’t true! You never [...]

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How To Pick Up Women Without Looking Like a Fool

May 17, 2008

If you’re here, then I’m going to assume that you’re determined to learn how to pick up women. I’ll tell you right away, the fastest way to learn is to hang out with guys that are already successful at attracting women on a consistent basis. Assuming you don’t have any of these friends around you, [...]

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Top 100 things that attract women to men

March 3, 2008

Clear, beautiful and healthy looking eyes. Eyes provide an insight on the level of health of the individual, and healthy eyes indicate a healthy mate. It was also surveyed as the most attractive feature according to various women’s magazines. A confident attitude towards life. Confidence indicates that you are successful and are to be trusted. [...]

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How To Make a Girl Happy

February 25, 2008

If you’re one of those guys that wants to know how to make a girl happy because you want her to like you in return, then stop right here. Making a girl happy will not make her like you, but once she likes you, making her happy is a great way to keep your relationship [...]

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How To Pick Up Girls

February 22, 2008

The art of picking up girls is not difficult; all you need to do is get a good grip beneath their shoulders and lift. I think even if it was this easy, most guys still wouldn’t be able to do it because of all the mental blocks they have: “What if I lift her and [...]

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How to Approach Girls

February 21, 2008

Its a shame that most men don’t know a single thing on how to approach properly because it is so easy if done in the right frame of mind. The approach should be an enjoyable experience for both you and the girl that you are going to meet. Now let’s examine the frame of mind [...]

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How To Make A Girl Smile

January 27, 2008

If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has made you smile. Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and [...]

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How To Make a Girl Fall in Love with You

November 5, 2007

The thought of tricking a girl into falling in love with you is a disturbing one. Love is a huge emotion that can radically and completely dictate someone’s life. If it was possible to perform a few magical steps in order to make a girl fall in love with you, we would live in a [...]

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How to Attract Girls

September 26, 2007

Once you master the basics of how to attract girls, then chasing women won’t be necessary as they will come to you. When a woman is chasing you instead of the other way around, it is much easier to be relaxed and have a good time instead of concentrating on what to do next. So [...]

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What Attracts Women To Men

September 23, 2007

When men try to list what attracts women to men, they usually mention looks, money and power. Those things help, but as we will see, there exists many more powerful traits that will attract women. The same thing applies to men, who in general will be attracted to a seductive smile, good body language (posture) [...]

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How To Make A Girl Feel Good

September 19, 2007

If you remember the saying, you get what you shall receive, then it is no wonder that many guys are searching for how to make a girl feel good. If this is your goal, then that’s amazing! The logic behind the idea is that if a girl feels good, then she will stay with you [...]

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Attracting Women During The Day

April 16, 2007

Most of the extremely attractive women in this world are used to getting a lot of male attention. They get special treatment, looks from everyone and often see pathetic attempts to pick them up. The fact of the matter is, this will only help you in succeeding with these women. Once you realize what she’s [...]

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About

April 13, 2007

Chris Calo has spent over 7 years teaching AFCs in the art of pickup. His journey began out of necessity, when he was forced to learn how to socialize in order to be able to perform his job properly. As a young salesman that was scared to talk to people, he had no choice but [...]

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