Today’s article is about a simple, yet immensely effective practice for boosting your success with women and people in general: I lovingly call it “get the bleep out of your house”. It may sound like I’m stating the bleeding obvious here, but from my own experience, I cannot stress enough how going outside really is a major step towards success with women. In this article, I would like to address some ideas that keep us from actually doing it: the misconceptions are that it needs to be set up properly, you need to set enough time aside for it, and it’s a special event.

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It sometimes seems to me that this is one of the most pressing, and most intricate, issues in the world of men. There are those who naturally know how to attract pretty women, and there are others who never seem to get it right – and throughout history, they’ve tested myriads of mind-made “methods”. What works, what doesn’t? If you examine it on a grand scale, strikingly enough, you come to a rather simple conclusion: attraction is constant vibe that naturally exists between men and women. Both sexes are inherently attractive to each other! Nature made them that way! So what’s hindering us? We’re not in touch with our attractiveness. Here’s some advice for us men.

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Know how they say that the path to a man’s heart leads through his stomach? Apart from that being true (I’m hungry again), you may still wonder what on Earth could be the path to a woman’s heart. It’s crucial! You just met this gorgeous woman, and you had the first date, and there’s a vibe, but where is the passion? The burning desire? That look she gets in her eyes when she feels it for you? You guessed it, it’s hiding within her, waiting for you to ignite it. Now think about this: when a woman cooks you your favorite meal, how does it appeal to your heart? It triggers your emotions. You feel all desired, loved and cared for inside. This is how to make her desire you, too: appeal to her emotions, not – as men tend to do – to her brain.

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Love is a force I feel but cannot see,
The most powerful in the world, the galaxy,
The cries of pain I cannot embrace,
The warm tears flowing down my face,

Love knows no boundaries, no distance, no time,
Love knows no logic, has no agenda in mind,
Love knows better than me, shows me my mistakes,
Makes me a better person, gives me what it takes,

Every heartbeat of the day,
The flight, the kiss, left on the runway,
The record is painful, yet continues to play,
Reminds me of the love that’s now far away,

Love is a magnet that increases with distance,
Far apart, stronger every instance,
My heart without hesitance,
Is ripping out of my chest,
Headed to the West,

Love is a compass, a divine light from above,
A gift from the universe, love is a dove,
It guide us in the right direction,
Give us a better vision,
Of an imperfect perfection,

Something we might have missed,
Had we not have met, had we not have kissed,

A love that is true and forever,
Overcoming all obstacles, one after the other,
The strength, the courage, to be together,
This is it, there is no better,

I’d like to think I got it right from the start,
But the truth is sometimes I need a flow chart,
I love you always,
With all my heart.

Once you get fairly good at opening women and talking to them, you may start wondering why things aren’t moving forward. I certainly remember those days when I was able to talk to anybody, establish a social vibe and make great friends. What I couldn’t do was escalate sexually – sometimes I would instinctively get it right, but I never knew consciously what happened.

The dilemma: unless you know how to escalate an interaction and move the relationship to the next level, you’re likely to stay in the “friends” zone with girls that you could otherwise have a sexy time with. To shed some light on this mystery, let me introduce you to the concept of “push and pull”.

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You want to learn how to be attractive to women – but how is a woman going to be attracted to you before you even know who you are yourself? Your first major step is to get your “inner game” sorted out: your confidence, steadiness, backbone and self-reliance need to be in place.

We’ve brought up this issue before, but it is so important that it deserves an article of its own: know yourself and become attractive. Do you know your core values, interests, what drives you emotionally, what defines you as a unique character? There are several areas in your life you can explore, and in a clichéd psychiatrist manner, my first piece of advice is: explore your past.

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When you hear the word “flirt”, what do you think? If you look it up on everybody’s favorite online encyclopedia, you get this: “Flirting is a form of human interaction between two people, expressing a romantic and/or sexual interest. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact.” Now, do you think this first line will help you learn how to flirt with a girl? Naturally, you may be reluctant to “express a romantic and/or sexual interest” in a woman just like that: what if you come off as weird, she gets annoyed, defensive, what if she flat-out rejects you? That would make flirting a quite unpleasant experience. On the other hand, if you really understand how to do it, you can make any flirt what it’s meant to be: a light, fun interaction with a breezy sexual vibe and sweet validation.

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Just wanted to give you a heads up that you can now request an invitation at the Attraction Lair . This thing is going to be huge so make sure you apply for an invitation to be one of the first ones in.

Link: Attraction Lair (Scroll to the bottom for the invitation form)

If there’s one common re-occurrence in the world of dating, it’s the fact that seemingly all guys get to a point where they say: “There’s just this one girl… I love this girl, you have to help me!”. Unfortunately, most of the time these guys haven’t even talked to this girl yet! So let’s make it clear right now, if you’re in love with a girl and you haven’t talked to her yet, then it’s not love. It might be lust, infatuation, attraction and possibly even obsession, and I’ll tell you, all of these things are very common and normal but it’s not love.

The most comforting thing is to realize you aren’t alone.

That’s right, there are hundreds of other guys that feel the same way that you do, hopelessly ‘in love’ with a girl and they don’t have the slightest clue on how to proceed in order to attract, seduce and make her fall in love with them. Don’t worry though, there’s hope and I’m going to show you how you can attract the girl of your dreams.

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Even if you’re not super attractive and don’t possess a magnetic aura that attracts women, you can still run into the kind of situation I encountered in a club before I started studying attraction. I was on the dance floor when this cute lady came up and danced close to me, smiling and initiating heavy eye contact. She had done the approach, and frankly, I didn’t know what to do. I blew it – and so could you, even if you’ve been practicing your seduction skills for a while now! It’s one thing to work on your attractiveness and confidence, but are you prepared for what happens when you are successful with women? What happens when a woman approaches a man ?

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