Wouldn’t it be amazing if there was few words you could whisper to make a girl fall in love with you within seconds of you approaching her? “Your beauty reminds me of autumn leaves falling ….” Well forget it! No poetic (feel free to laugh at my failed poetic attempt), cheesy line or even smart line will ever trigger love in a woman.
As a matter of fact, why would you want to do that in the first place?!
Okay, okay. Yeah, I hear you. We’ve all been there, right? There’s this amazingly beautiful girl at work or school. You watch her in amazement every day: her movements are so graceful, her hair is full auburn, she has dark beady eyes and a smile that could brighten up the effing sun. This is love at first sight. She’s the one! You must not screw this up, like the last time you mustered up your courage and confessed your undying love to a girl out of the blue! How can you go over and rock her world the minute you start talking to her?
Well you can’t. And you shouldn’t. You should approach her with calm and confidence to check out if she has the character to back up her looks. Parable time: imagine you’re an ornithologist, and there’s this incredibly beautiful and exotic bird you’ve been watching in sheer amazement for weeks on end. Then one day, you get close to it: it’s a breathtaking moment. You’re all shaking and sweaty because it’s such a heavenly creature and BAM! It bites you right in the face and craps on your jacket. How’s that for a downer?
The Advantage A Woman Has Over A Bird
There’s one advantage that a woman has over a bird: with the bird, you can’t go over and chat it up. The woman, though, will appreciate if a dashing, fun, outgoing young gentleman shows a casual interest in her. So go over and make some easy conversation to check her out.
To do this, you will need to change your attitude, young Padawan. Your good old “love at first sight” is what I like to call “infatuation”. Beyond that might lie the bitter realization that your “angel” is actually the crappy-bitey type of woman, and that’s something you want to find out before her auburn hair is clogging up your drain and she’s hogging your goods and chattels.
Right before you approach her, take a long, deep breath to flush the anxiety out of your system, then turn around and observe something about her: “Hey, I haven’t seen you in your Ninja Turtles sweater in a while. What happened? Grow out of it?” Be tongue-in-cheek if you can (and if it comes naturally). There, you’ve started a conversation.
Many, many men will act extra-nice, appreciative and submissive when they interact with a very beautiful woman. For some reason, they seem to think that catering to her every need is best way to get a girl to like you. Get this: if there’s one need of hers that you should cater to, it’s the need of being treated like a regular person. What she says or does is not some form of eternal, paramount truth: call her on it! Show that you have your own standards, and while you’re interested in her, she still has to live up to what you want in a great person.
Avoid Scripted Conversations!
Another big steaming pile that guys will step into is “scripted conversations”. I’m sure you’ve prepared conversations hundreds of times in the past, planning all the best things to say, only to screw it up big time. Scripting’s a surefire way to get that outcome. So stop doing it! Once a conversation is on, all you – and the girl! – can do is be in the present. If your mind is busy focusing on some BS “I love you” stuff you made up beforehand, it’s certainly not invested in the situation at hand. Trust me, the girl can tell that you have some sort of agenda running in the background such as trying to impress her, and as you get nervous and detached, she will get bored and annoyed. Relinquish your “control”, just listen and react – it’s the same courtesy she’s giving you.
If you shift your perspective that way, you’ll automatically become more relaxed and present. This is a regular everyday interaction between two human beings. Your goal is no longer to get love from girls: it’s to get to know them because they look interesting. There’s nothing left for you to lose now, but everything to gain. So what’s the worst that could happen? Ending up with all you had before? Well great! This is your new vantage point. Now go out and step forward from it.
1. What are some ways to make a girl fall in love with you?
First, try to be the best version of yourself that you can be. Be confident, kind, and interesting, and make sure you treat her with respect. Second, try to create a strong emotional connection with her by sharing your thoughts and feelings with her and listening carefully to hers.
2. What are some things to avoid if you want to make a girl fall in love?
There are a lot of things to avoid if you want to make a girl fall in love with you. Here are some of the most important things to avoid:
1. Don’t be needy or clingy.
2. Don’t be too available.
3. Don’t be too easy to get.
4. Don’t be too perfect.
5. Don’t try too hard.
6. Don’t be too self-centered.
3. How important is physical appearance?
Physical appearance can be an important factor in making a girl fall in love with you. If you are physically attracted to someone, you are more likely to be drawn to their personality and to want to get to know them better, which can lead to love.
4. How important is it to be a good listener if you want to make a girl fall in love with you?
If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, it is very important to be a good listener. Listening is a way of showing respect and interest in someone, and girls appreciate guys who take the time to really listen to what they have to say. Moreover, being a good listener will help you to better understand the girl you are interested in, and this can be very helpful in figuring out how to make her fall in love with you.
5. What role does humor play?
Humor is a very important part of making a girl fall in love with you. It can help you break the ice, make her feel comfortable around you, and even make her laugh. Humor is a great way to show your personality and to make a girl feel special. If you can make her laugh, she’ll definitely be more likely to fall in love with you.
6. How important are compliments?
Compliments are definitely important in making a girl fall in love with you. They show that you are interested in her and care about her. They also make her feel special and appreciated.
7. What is the best way to show a girl you’re interested in her?
Some tips on how to show a girl you’re interested in her in a way that is sure to impress her include:
1. Compliment her. Everyone loves to be complimented, and it will show her that you are interested in her specifically.
2. Listen to her.
8. What are some common mistakes guys make when trying to make a girl fall in love with them?
There are a lot of common mistakes that guys make when trying to make a girl fall in love with them. One of the biggest mistakes is trying to buy her love. This includes buying her gifts, taking her out to expensive places, and trying to show her how much money you have. While it’s important to be generous, it’s more important to be genuine.
