I Should Have Kissed Her
Do you often find yourself thinking… “Ahh what a great night but I should have kissed her” ? If so, then you’re not alone. It seems as if one of the biggest regrets that guys have during dates is not knowing when to make that move. It’s not your fault either, it’s a daunting task to dive in when you don’t know what’s going to happen!
Fortunately, there’s help. Here’s how you can live with the regret of “I shouldn’t have kissed her” instead!
First, during the date, you must slowly build some physical comfort. This means that there should be some physical contact of some sort. This can be brushing against each other, little subtle touches or even bigger touches such as touching hands. This makes a kiss at the end a lot more natural because it’s just a progression of what’s been happening. When you’re hanging out with someone and having a good time, it’s likely that there’s going to be some sort of physical contact… so don’t even worry about this. If there isn’t any however, then sound the alarms!
Second, there’s a trick to know WHEN a girl’s ready to be kissed. I can’t take credit for it though, it’s David DeAngelo that came up with it. He calls it his ‘Kiss Test‘ and it works every time. Use his test, you can tell exactly when a girl is ready to be kissed without having to have an awkward moment.
Finally, just enjoy yourself. Usually, if you really feel that you should have kissed her, then she probably feels the same way. You just need to take your courage in hand and go for it!
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Hey Chris,
That’s really true… you want to take it slow and build the contact up overtime. That’s just the way it always happens
Comment by John — August 4, 2008 @ 2:01 am
I never noticed it but that’s the way it always happens for me! the kiss test is good too lol
Comment by Julia — August 4, 2008 @ 2:02 am
hi, i found this site because i saw the xkcd comic.. but then i was curious and read through a little.
I must say, the kiss test is really quite good! I’ll probably be using it next time the situation arises!
Comment by Paul H — August 4, 2008 @ 2:05 am
I’ve read some of David DeAngelo’s advise, and he is right on the money. Good article.
Comment by Michael Moore — August 4, 2008 @ 2:54 am
I think xkcd will count towards most of the comments here….
Comment by EdenisT — August 4, 2008 @ 4:07 am
Are xkcd and the PUA “community” compatible?
Comment by Jim H — August 4, 2008 @ 5:35 am
Also found this site after the xkcd comic today.
What can you lose if you kiss her? If she says no. she loses you. not other way around.
But I know we’re not thinking like that at that moment.
Comment by Herman — August 4, 2008 @ 5:59 am
(another curious xkcd reader)
Gotta say I agree with the article. Haven’t looked at the test though.
Comment by Nath — August 4, 2008 @ 8:28 am
Also found it from xkcd, when you want to kiss her you probably should.
Comment by AmS — August 11, 2008 @ 3:03 pm
Guilty.
Comment by xkcd — November 27, 2008 @ 10:49 pm
Heh. I also found this by xkcd.
Comment by Yams — March 17, 2009 @ 11:36 am
yeah i’m here cause of xkcd
haha
Comment by John — March 31, 2009 @ 7:28 pm
XKCD sent me… sorry.
Comment by Atre — April 19, 2009 @ 3:47 am
XKCD is god
Comment by BlahBlahBlah — December 5, 2009 @ 1:44 pm
just got here through xkcd…. now i think i should check out the ‘kiss test’ 2..:)
Comment by tyroceur — December 12, 2009 @ 10:15 am