The Best Time To Get A Kiss On A 1st Date

I Should Have Kissed Her

by on August 4, 2008, Revised on: July 26th, 2011

Do you often find yourself thinking… “Ahh what a great night but why didn’t I kiss her” ? If so, then you’re not alone. It seems as if one of the biggest regrets that guys have during dates is not knowing when to make that move. It’s not your fault either, it’s a daunting task to dive in when you don’t know what’s going to happen!

Fortunately, there’s help. Here’s how you can live with the regret of “I shouldn’t have kissed her” instead!

First, during the date, you must slowly build some physical comfort. This means that there should be some physical contact of some sort. This can be brushing against each other, little subtle touches or even bigger touches such as touching hands. This makes a kiss at the end a lot more natural because it’s just a progression of what’s been happening. When you’re hanging out with someone and having a good time, it’s likely that there’s going to be some sort of physical contact… so don’t even worry about this. If there isn’t any however, then sound the alarms!

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Second, there’s a trick to know WHEN a girl’s ready to be kissed. I can’t take credit for it though, it’s David DeAngelo that came up with it. He calls it his ‘Kiss Test‘ and it works every time. Use his test, you can tell exactly when a girl is ready to be kissed without having to have an awkward moment.

Finally, just enjoy yourself. Usually, if you really feel that you should have kissed her, then she probably feels the same way. You just need to take your courage in hand and go for it!

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{ 16 comments… read them below or add one }

John August 4, 2008 at 2:01 am

Hey Chris,

That’s really true… you want to take it slow and build the contact up overtime. That’s just the way it always happens

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Julia August 4, 2008 at 2:02 am

I never noticed it but that’s the way it always happens for me! the kiss test is good too lol

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Paul H August 4, 2008 at 2:05 am

hi, i found this site because i saw the xkcd comic.. but then i was curious and read through a little.

I must say, the kiss test is really quite good! I’ll probably be using it next time the situation arises!

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Michael Moore August 4, 2008 at 2:54 am

I’ve read some of David DeAngelo’s advise, and he is right on the money. Good article.

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EdenisT August 4, 2008 at 4:07 am

I think xkcd will count towards most of the comments here….

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Jim H August 4, 2008 at 5:35 am

Are xkcd and the PUA “community” compatible?

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Herman August 4, 2008 at 5:59 am

Also found this site after the xkcd comic today.

What can you lose if you kiss her? If she says no. she loses you. not other way around.

But I know we’re not thinking like that at that moment.

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Nath August 4, 2008 at 8:28 am

(another curious xkcd reader)

Gotta say I agree with the article. Haven’t looked at the test though.

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AmS August 11, 2008 at 3:03 pm

Also found it from xkcd, when you want to kiss her you probably should.

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xkcd November 27, 2008 at 10:49 pm

Guilty.

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Yams March 17, 2009 at 11:36 am

Heh. I also found this by xkcd.

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John March 31, 2009 at 7:28 pm

yeah i’m here cause of xkcd

haha

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Atre April 19, 2009 at 3:47 am

XKCD sent me… sorry.

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BlahBlahBlah December 5, 2009 at 1:44 pm

XKCD is god

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tyroceur December 12, 2009 at 10:15 am

just got here through xkcd…. now i think i should check out the ‘kiss test’ 2..:)

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fearofraptors March 18, 2011 at 12:47 am

xkcd reader

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