If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has made you smile. Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and fuzzy when she thinks about you ?
The Best Smiles
Here are the kinds of smiles you are trying to get:
- Genuine smile
- Compliment smile
- Impressed smile
- Happy smile
And here are the kind of smiles you want to avoid:
- Polite smile
- Weird / “You are insane” smile.
- I own you smile
Situational smiles
The easiest way to get a smile out of a girl is to make use of the environment that you’re both in at the moment and to highlight something funny that is occurring. There is always something interesting, or funny happening if you pay attention to it.
For example, if you’re both waiting in line… make eye contact so that she notices you, and then immediately go into a huge fake yawn hinting that you’re bored of waiting line. This works great if there’s a huge line and no one is talking. The key is to be funny while retaining your dignity. If you make a fool of yourself, you’ll get the “you are weird” smile. We have another article on how to make women laugh that dives a little deeper into this.
A more verbal approach in situational smiles would be to point something funny out to her. Usually talking about other people or items is an easy way to score a laugh. If you were grocery shopping and you happened to be in the cheese isle, you could say in a serious tone: “This cheese reminds me of the moon”, and then break out a small grin. Its dumb, but it works.
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i wan you to help me out with advice, i have a girl i love so much and want to keep her but she does not care about how im feeling, she behave as if she is not interested but when i try getten angry she come closer , she does not take me serious what do i dey .
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She’s either not interested but feels bad because she thinks she may have hurt your feelings
Or
She’s playing Hard To Get.
My advice is to write her a note, tell her how she makes you feel and how much she makes you smile. Don’t sign it but drop hints as to whom you are, if she doesn’t respond to that, she’s not interested and you should move on
Dude just find another chick. Maybe in a bar and idk if u think that girl u like likes ya back try to make her a little jealous by bringing another chick around her
Laughter don’t mean you have to do a joke ~ knock knock, who’s there? not the girl of your dreams (see what i mean?) just pretend it’s a guy friend and don’t be scared to piss her off and most of all DONT CARE IF SHE LAUGHS OR NOT!!!!!!!!!!
There’s this girl that i really really really like. but sadly she has a boyfriend… her boyfriend never makes her feel good and as a matter of fact, i make her laugh even more than her own boyfriend!
now the biggest problem is that her boyfriend is my best friend. I’m really confused but all i know is that i love her more than anything i could think of… =(
There’s this girl i like but i’m too afraid to talk to her i wrote a not telling her how i felt but didn’t put my name but i’m just too afraid. What should i do?
bro don’t be afraid, and the biggest thing she would do is nothing, she won’t hit you or diss you, she is a girl and your a guy, and u can talk. But try to be cool, talk a little and stay calm, she will like you.
Girls who smile at you when you smile usually like what they see. They do whats called smiling with their eyes. This is when they barely smile but you can see it via body language and eyes. I’m an expert when it comes to what girls think. I grew up with 3 sisters and a mom. No guys!
For whoever comes across with the problem that you have a best friend and the girl hes with you love and you want to talk to but you don’t because hes your friend. Yeah confusing.
Anyway. TALK TO HER. The best girl I’ve ever met in my life was that girl. I had to see her kiss with another guy for a whole year, everyday. I had to live with the pain of seeing her do that without even knowing me. Now I’m with her and i enjoy every second of my life that i ever talk to her, don’t let that girl go and move your friend a side. In the end its her decision on who she likes or even loves more.
Plz Help me! I’m in Love with a gal who is a Close Friend of mine. I know that she doesn’t like love. but as I didn’t want to miss her in my life I proposed her. At First she didn’t reply me. I kept on asking her to tell me whether she likes me or not. She messaged me that she doesn’t like me at all! And she stopped contacting me. I begged her to love me. But she said that I’m not a good looking guy and all! But after a few weeks later I saw her in a Church. She saw me with sadness. I understood tat from her looks and facial expressions. I don’t know wat does that mean can anyone help me please.
i met a girl, and she is 19 and I’m 18,she thinks that I’m young to be with her,how would i overcome her?? I’ve told her that i love even i had lied to her that I’m 19 too, but now due some matters she got to now that I’m 1 year younger than her, how would i overcome this??
hi,
i am in very bad condition there is girl,she is my great friend and as well as i really liked her also,she also like me as a good friend and she had blind trust on me .But this time i made something wrong with her .i make wrong that i was in secured about her and dont want to loose her with this feeling,i lied her about her one of the good friend that he is not the right person and he was telling bad about you and i suare her that i am right but i was not right.Now every thing is crystal clear because she knows i was liar,and i commit every thing and i told the reason.But she is not in the same mood just like before…
24 days are already passed she is still not like me in that way.i am her good friend from last 4 years,and i cant see her like this way…
I know i was wrong but my friendship towards her was not wrong,i really care for her and i dont want to loose her friendship.
Because she is really good,and i dont want to loose a good friend from my life.
i already apologized many times…
Please help me……..
hello im a girl and i was looking up how to make a guy smile and this popped up so i know that this guy is flirting with me and i like him i mean he was at a party and he walked past the table i was at and brushed his hand softly against it guys help me should i go ask him out or wait and write notes leading him to me this is so frustrating
Makenzie, guys are different. Just go talk to him and you’ll know. You can ask him out but usually the guy wants to.
See Girls we really Appreciate u !
It is impossible to make my girlfriend smile.I am slogging to make her smile day and night & she simply ignores me.hmmm…………..
Wow, you guys are under so much pressure! Just be yourself, if she’s worth it and your meant to be together, you’ll capture her heart just being exactly who you are. If not, then move on and eventually you’ll find the right girl
This girl at school I like has a boyfriend but I like her the prolblem is she keeps giving this other guy in class all the attention they even set up a planket in the grass to make it more noticeable it’s like they want to make me jeliouse like I need to compete but I wanna piss on them because she’s a cheater and he stinks like really I just never told him so if she can stand the smell she can go right ahead and his attitude is cocky it must just be bad luck
Dear lonly guy, I got just thee EXACT experience. I love this girl who also has a BF. Her BF almost don’t talk to her in person, barely makes her laugh, and i bet I’m more romantic than him. The problem is that she says that she loves him (But he doesn’t). Sometimes she tells me that she loves me and that I’m attractive, but I just don’t know what to think =/
@ghost. Its one thing to say it and another thing to do it. Its a very hard thing to do. I’m sure a lot of guys know it. But what you say is true. Guys, you just have to know when to move on because lots of times the right girl is waiting for you. But you’ll never find her cause you don’t know when to move on. I know about this all too well.
i love ur publication. what if ur girl loves u but she is always picky at u,what should u do?
Hey everyone, I have a problem. Im afraid of talking to girls. I get told alot by other women that im “hot” so looks arn’t my problem, but im still afraid and too shy to even say hi to a girl. I dunno how to start talking to them, and if somehow i get a confidence boost and i say hi and we start talking i dont know what to say and it gets awkward…help me out please.
Thanks for your time.
hey i dont no why but i love my girl a lot but so days i see her gust huging and haveing a great time she looks at me and im gust siting there all a lone and she dunst come over she gust ya and like i live out of where every one lives so i never get to do any thing with them and my girl friend it sucks but i broke up with her one time because i fond out that over the summer she and this dude and some friends hung out but the things her best friends told me i gust was so up set and now i cant ya i need help thanks
@Pinochetti: I was and sometime still am like what you described. The best way to help yourself out to have a conversation with a girl is to ask her a question that require more than 1 answer words. Its always good to ask questions such as where are you from and do you like it here or there. Its easy to follow up with other questions after that and to also start up a conversation. Once a girl tell me where she is from I usually respond by saying i’ve never been there before or I have been there a couple of times. If I haven’t been there i ask her to tell something about her hometown like how is it there? Its always good to ask questions that will allow the female to talk the most. Girls love to talk more than listen so show that you are a good communicator and listener.make sure you maintain eye contact when talking to her. That allows her to know that you are interested in talking to her only. I can go on and on but I don’t want to fill up this board. If you need more help or suggestions just email me.
im a girl, and I think ‘watching for body language and posture’ isnt going to help. No two girls have the same posture. So you could think someone likes you and fail. Guys; simply ASK THE GIRL IF SHE LIKES YOU!!!!
This probably will happen to you in your life but this just happened to me. I have a boyfriend and he is super cute. But there is this guy in my class who really has a crush on me. He puts love notes in my desk and says stuff like this- I don’t know why the sun isn’t out because it is still HOT out here then looks at me. Well this kid is so gross and so ugly.But couple days ago he came up to me and said I don’t care if you have a boyfriend do you want to go out with me? I literly threw up and everybody in my class was like omg i feel so bad for you. Ten seconds after he asked me out I ran out of the classroom door ran into the bathroom and pretty much threw up.
I love her and i have already approach her but said she is not ready now but i should wait. When i chat with her on phone i don’t even no what to discuss with her and at times she eager to hung up quickly on me i want to make her mine so please help me
im gonna use all that ive learned from here on this girl at work wish me luck hope it works and this stuff is pretty good sounds like every success ive had during a relationship comes back to some of this stuff
i agree with the Alex chick. just ask her if she likes you and she cant blame you for trying
Hey I’m a girl. And I need your help. See, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. My family is very conservative. My boyfriend and his family are all liberal. My boyfriend likes rock and roll, my grandma believes that rock comes from the devil (weird ik) Anyways, I’m ok with my boyfriend and everything, we still laugh and talk like we have since the day we met. I’m ok with his appearance, however, he has long hair. It’s kind of his thing but seeing as how we’re both fresh out of high school he’s at the point where he needs a job. I kind of secretly want him to cut it but that doesn’t mean I want him to change, just. it’s been hard for him to get a job. He’s a great guy and very devoted. If anyone has any advice on what I should do or what, please help. (Yes, I’ve already tried talking to him about this.. he’s very attached to his hair which worries me because I want him to get a job)