How to make a girl smile
If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has made you smile. Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and fuzzy when she thinks about you ?
Here are the kinds of smiles you are trying to get:
- Genuine smile
- Compliment smile
- Impressed smile
- Happy smile
And here are the kind of smiles you want to avoid:
- Polite smile
- Weird / “You are insane” smile.
- I own you smile
Situational smiles
The easiest way to make a girl smile is to make use of the environment that you’re both in at the moment and to highlight something funny that is occurring. There is always something interesting, or funny happening if you pay attention to it.
For example, if you’re both waiting in line… make eye contact so that she notices you, and then immediately go into a huge fake yawn hinting that you’re bored of waiting line. This works great if there’s a huge line and no one is talking. The key is to be funny while retaining your dignity. If you make a fool of yourself, you’ll get the “you are weird” smile.
A more verbal approach in situational smiles would be to point something funny out to her. Usually talking about other people or items is an easy way to score a laugh. If you were grocery shopping and you happened to be in the cheese isle, you could say in a serious tone: “This cheese reminds me of the moon”, and then break out a small grin. Its dumb, but it works. ( Here’s a little more information on lines to make a girl smile )
Avoid pre-canned material
Of course, the WORSE way to make a girl smile is to use someone else’s joke or canned material. If it doesn’t come out as spontaneous and natural, then it will trigger the polite smile. What ever you do, do not ever tell a joke with a beginning, a middle and an end. These will NOT trigger any attraction what-so-ever. In fact, what this says is that you are trying to impress her and this will consequently lead to less attraction.
Body language smiles & smiles attract smiles
Sometimes giving a genuine smile will result in receiving one as well. “Give and you shall receive!” The best place to try this is in a setting where you are busy and CANNOT immediately talk to the woman in question. The smile says: “Hello, I’m interested and I WOULD talk to you, but unfortunately I’m busy right now and I can’t, so I might later if you return the smile”. Imagine you were hard at work, waiting tables, lifting boxes, actually doing something… and you saw an attractive woman you wished to talk to but at the moment, just couldn’t. A nice genuine smile would be infinitely appropriate and would peak her curiosity assuming she found you remotely attractive.
If you don’t end up talking to her, then she’ll leave thinking: “Oh I should go back to that place where that guy smiled at me… maybe he’ll still be there and won’t be busy this time”
Conversely, if you DO talk to her, she’s likely to be much more receptive and excited to get to know you.
The worse place to give a big smile as an opener is at a club, bar, party or any social setting. This immediately says: “Hello, I don’t have the guts to talk to you”. In those situations, talk first, THEN smile.
Comedy: Exaggeration and misleading
Assuming you’re hanging out with the girl, exaggeration and misdirection are the best ways to make someone smile. Its the essence of all comedy and it works for professional comedians as well as for you.
If you can get a girl smile, she’ll usually be more attracted to you. All those good feelings get associated to you and consequently, you end up being the guy who makes her feel good. The last and most powerful way to make a girl smile is called using the “cocky and funny” technique. Not only does this technique work every time, but it also triggers powerful feelings of attraction at the same time. The “Cocky and Funny” technique is covered in detail in Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. Not only will you learn how to make a girl smile, but you’ll learn how to create powerful attraction as well.
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i wan you to help me out with advice, i have a girl i love so much and want to keep her but she does not care about how im feeling, she behave as if she is not interested but when i try getten angry she come closer , she does not take me serious what do i dey .
i really love here .
thanks
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She’s either not interested but feels bad because she thinks she may have hurt your feelings
Or
She’s playing Hard To Get.
My advice is to write her a note, tell her how she makes you feel and how much she makes you smile. Don’t sign it but drop hints as to whom you are, if she doesn’t respond to that, she’s not interested and you should move on
Laughter don’t mean you have to do a joke ~ knock knock, who’s there? not the girl of your dreams (see what i mean?) just pretend it’s a guy friend and don’t be scared to piss her off and most of all DONT CARE IF SHE LAUGHS OR NOT!!!!!!!!!!
There’s this girl that i really really really like. but sadly she has a boyfriend… her boyfriend never makes her feel good and as a matter of fact, i make her laugh even more than her own boyfriend!
now the biggest problem is that her boyfriend is my best friend. I’m really confused but all i know is that i love her more than anything i could think of… =(
There’s this girl i like but i’m too afraid to talk to her i wrote a not telling her how i felt but didn’t put my name but i’m just too afraid. What should i do?
bro don’t be afraid, and the biggest thing she would do is nothing, she won’t hit you or diss you, she is a girl and your a guy, and u can talk. But try to be cool, talk a little and stay calm, she will like you.
Girls who smile at you when you smile usually like what they see. They do whats called smiling with their eyes. This is when they barely smile but you can see it via body language and eyes. I’m an expert when it comes to what girls think. I grew up with 3 sisters and a mom. No guys!
For whoever comes across with the problem that you have a best friend and the girl hes with you love and you want to talk to but you don’t because hes your friend. Yeah confusing.
Anyway. TALK TO HER. The best girl I’ve ever met in my life was that girl. I had to see her kiss with another guy for a whole year, everyday. I had to live with the pain of seeing her do that without even knowing me. Now I’m with her and i enjoy every second of my life that i ever talk to her, don’t let that girl go and move your friend a side. In the end its her decision on who she likes or even loves more.
Plz Help me! I’m in Love with a gal who is a Close Friend of mine. I know that she doesn’t like love. but as I didn’t want to miss her in my life I proposed her. At First she didn’t reply me. I kept on asking her to tell me whether she likes me or not. She messaged me that she doesn’t like me at all! And she stopped contacting me. I begged her to love me. But she said that I’m not a good looking guy and all! But after a few weeks later I saw her in a Church. She saw me with sadness. I understood tat from her looks and facial expressions. I don’t know wat does that mean can anyone help me please.
i met a girl, and she is 19 and I’m 18,she thinks that I’m young to be with her,how would i overcome her?? I’ve told her that i love even i had lied to her that I’m 19 too, but now due some matters she got to now that I’m 1 year younger than her, how would i overcome this??
hi,
i am in very bad condition there is girl,she is my great friend and as well as i really liked her also,she also like me as a good friend and she had blind trust on me .But this time i made something wrong with her .i make wrong that i was in secured about her and dont want to loose her with this feeling,i lied her about her one of the good friend that he is not the right person and he was telling bad about you and i suare her that i am right but i was not right.Now every thing is crystal clear because she knows i was liar,and i commit every thing and i told the reason.But she is not in the same mood just like before…
24 days are already passed she is still not like me in that way.i am her good friend from last 4 years,and i cant see her like this way…
I know i was wrong but my friendship towards her was not wrong,i really care for her and i dont want to loose her friendship.
Because she is really good,and i dont want to loose a good friend from my life.
i already apologized many times…
Please help me……..
hello im a girl and i was looking up how to make a guy smile and this popped up so i know that this guy is flirting with me and i like him i mean he was at a party and he walked past the table i was at and brushed his hand softly against it guys help me should i go ask him out or wait and write notes leading him to me this is so frustrating
Makenzie, guys are different. Just go talk to him and you’ll know. You can ask him out but usually the guy wants to.
See Girls we really Appreciate u !
It is impossible to make my girlfriend smile.I am slogging to make her smile day and night & she simply ignores me.hmmm…………..
Wow, you guys are under so much pressure! Just be yourself, if she’s worth it and your meant to be together, you’ll capture her heart just being exactly who you are. If not, then move on and eventually you’ll find the right girl
This girl at school I like has a boyfriend but I like her the prolblem is she keeps giving this other guy in class all the attention they even set up a planket in the grass to make it more noticeable it’s like they want to make me jeliouse like I need to compete but I wanna piss on them because she’s a cheater and he stinks like really I just never told him so if she can stand the smell she can go right ahead and his attitude is cocky it must just be bad luck
Dear lonly guy, I got just thee EXACT experience. I love this girl who also has a BF. Her BF almost don’t talk to her in person, barely makes her laugh, and i bet I’m more romantic than him. The problem is that she says that she loves him (But he doesn’t). Sometimes she tells me that she loves me and that I’m attractive, but I just don’t know what to think =/
@ghost. Its one thing to say it and another thing to do it. Its a very hard thing to do. I’m sure a lot of guys know it. But what you say is true. Guys, you just have to know when to move on because lots of times the right girl is waiting for you. But you’ll never find her cause you don’t know when to move on. I know about this all too well.