How to make a girl feel good
If you remember the saying, you get what you shall receive, then it is no wonder that many guys search for how to make a girl feel good. The logical idea is that if a guy makes a girl feel good, then she will stay with him forever because she will feel happy around him. Is this is absolute truth ? Not quite… If I look at all my relationships, including girlfriend, friends and family, I tend to hang out with those that make me feel good more often.
Most people seek to avoid pain and gain pleasure, and feeling good is the definition of pleasurable. There are some pitfalls however, if you make someone feel good by degrading yourself socially, then that person will not respect you. The idea is that you cannot make someone feel good if, in terms of status, you are not worth anything. Let me elaborate.
If you are a clingy guy who always tells a girl that she is beautiful, she might enjoy it the first time, but she’ll soon come to realize that you are putting her up on a pedestal. Since everything is relative, telling her that she looks great consequently means that you do not look as good as her. When your social value drops, your ability to make her feel happy drops substantially. For example, imagine a famous actor of your choice walking down the red carpet. Now a crazed fan runs up to him and tells your favorite actor that he is amazing. “Big deal” he thinks, another fan. In this situation, the fan might have a masters in Cinematography, it wouldn’t matter, the approach taken by the fan reduced his value to less than zero and therefore his compliment had absolutely no effect. However, if another person, say… a respected peer of the actor, maybe a co-star, came up to him and told him he really played a specific part in the movie well, then this statement would be valued much more.
The golden rule on how to make a girl like you.
So how does this relate to making a girl feel good ? Remember the golden rule that people will feel comfortable around you IF you feel comfortable yourself. Same applies to feeling good, if you feel good, then she shall feel good as well. Enjoy life, be happy and it shall be contagious. In order to make her feel good, she must be happy to be around you.
If you must compliment her, make sure that she deserves it. Tell her something specific, accurate and include yourself in the goodness as well. There is a huge difference in saying: “We’re the best looking couple at this Halloween party” and “You look the best at this Halloween party”. But enough about looks, people don’t care as much about looks as society leads us to think. Here are some quick situational examples:
- Get her to cook for you, and then tell her the food was amazing
- Go out and do a team activity, and then ‘talk her up’
- If she’s putting herself down… talk her up
- If she’s talking herself up… tease her!
If you’re still wondering how to make a girl feel good, then I’ll leave you with this piece of information: Make sure to read the book Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo, it shows you how to make a girl feel so good she’ll be addicted to you for life.
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Great article, keep it up.
Hi I was wondering what are the best spots to make a girl feel like there in bliss on there body I wanna make here feel like a woman or like she is on cloud nine pleas help thank you B.A.
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i just want to say that this is a very good article,me and my lady are going through some bad times,it is my fault i did somethings that i shouldnt of,but its mad me realise the she is the one i want spend the rest of my life with
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hi i in the same spot with they 4th guy who commented i really do love the girl and i may still be in H.S. but i do want to marry her
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this would be awesome advice if i wasnt depressed all the time. im sry but i cant feel good about myself. i dont put myself down for her. i put myself down bcuz i really believe i have no point in life. ive been trying to better myself lately tho and i even if she doesnt end up with me i just want her to be happy no matter if she hates me or not.
Hey, I just finished nibblin on my girl’s ear and she said it made her go crazy! Why is this?
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i love my classmate girl she is very friendly i want her love please somebody give me some tips on how i make her love me plz
Hello, could you please tell me how can I get back a girl in with whom I had a good friendship. I loved her in colleges days and she was very close to me, she had a boyfriend but now her boyfriend hurt her and she broke up with him, she loved her too much but I am sure she some space in her heart for me because I was very nice with her but sometimes I teased her because I wanted to know that weather she has some space for me or not. I last met with her 5 months ago and that was our last day in the college and that day I had a little argue with her for Group presentation. After 3-4 of the last day of college she called me and said that got a very good job then I wished her for that and from that day to 2day she has not called me once but I called her after 2-3 days of the day when she called me last time. We have accounts on facebook, may be she wanted to know that weather I love her or not or trying to tease me, for this she set her status that she is single!
haha, you guys are hilarious just be yourself, if she doesn’t like you, then too bad! There’s plenty of fish in the sea, just find the perfect one for you.
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Your article helped me to be more confident on how to make a girl feel good. Thanks
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