Design what you do next
You will find that some of the things that ail you, you can’t (easily) change. Yet, you can always, under any circumstance, change your attitude towards them! This is done easiest when you have something else in your life that
a) you have full control of
b) is going well.
You need to create something that’s uniquely yours. That “they” can’t take from you. So design what you do next. Consider: what do you love? Are you into music? Acting? Singing? Dancing? Web design? Photography? Painting? Drawing?
Hey, there’s a lot. If you look just a bit below the surface, you will easily find activities to help you channel your emotions – your soul. I’ll call them “creative outlets”.
Reclaim control
So you have some loose ends now – listen to your emotions, change your attitude towards circumstances, find creative outlets. How does it all fit together?
Well, these steps entail each other and work together to pull you out of your rut. Of course, you have to identify first what’s going on inside you. Then, you should to find where you can make a change – some things you can amend like that (stop watching TV all the time), others are circumstances you have to deal with (or make huge changes in your life to get rid of, e.g. quit, move away).
This is where you want to design your own outlet. So you start drawing or writing. Soon enough, you have truly captivating stories or sketches! They make you happy because your soul can manifest in them, and others love them because they feel the emotion inside. Now, this is what allows you to change your attitude towards circumstances: you just don’t care about them as much anymore, because you’ve learned how to keep going despite circumstances. There is good stuff happening in your life, and it’s because you sparked it. Now how easy is it to get that job, pass that test, and seduce that woman?
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Art of Seduction 
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hey, I feel so down sometimes that it’s hard to keep on going. You don’t really have a choice right?
But when the entire world seems to be coming down on you, it’s really tough sometimes!
Most fellas get lost between realising that they’re “lost” and regaining that self control, now that’s a real fight. I particularly like the bit: “…If you look just a bit below the surface, you will easily find activities to help you channel your emotions – your soul. I’ll call them “creative outlets…”
I fell that have always destroy the good thing that i have done
I have all kinds of bad things going on to the point I realized I can’t do anything about them now at the moment.. So I realized I can controll 1 thing an that’s how I look at all this beauty is in the eye of the beholder what some one might see as bad another can see as good I have an operation for my leg on Friday cause I got hit by a truck on new years day my mom is kicking me out tomorrow an threatening to lock me up she’s in a mental hospital as of yesterday I’m flat broke I’m on probation to top it off I fell I love with a girl that’s better then anything I ever dreamed of last Friday met her an fell in love the same day she stayed with me
All day till 3:am then she had to go home to her boy friend I know it docent look good for me
But I also know anything can happen I could die tomorrow or hit the lotto or go to jail in the morning an I have know one to talk to an for some reason out of all those things the only thing that is important to me now is the girl I’m in love with an I don’t even beleave she thinks about me each problem was so big till something els Toped it. I realized that I’m bugging I can’t stop thinking about my love scaird to get hurt an scarid to stop loving this beautiful perfect girl cause I know she is my Mach. I can fall in love. But I can’t love anybody if I don’t love my self. I’m hurting my self for some one who could probably care less if I drop dead. I have to love me befor I do anything.. If u don’t love your car you won’t taken are of it or clean it an it will break down it will be dirty u or no one will want it. Love ur sole an ur body. Im starting to love my self for the first time tonight it’s hard an I can see how mush I never cared about my self no wonder no one cares about me protect ur self mentally amotionaly an physically. It’s an old saying (Love your self first). I never cared about what I need only what I want an when you want something u have pain till u get it. An when u get it you bare a painful separation when it’s gon every thing under the sun is temporary I read it from jesus words my daily bread now I have to give my self more an more love I have the motivation to do anything for the girl Im in love with.. An not for my self alone. So I’m about to treat my self better then the girl I love.. So I can love her for ever an good
I hope I helped some body.. PS I love me an Tia