How to Impress A Girl When You’re Not Rich and Famous
Ever wonder why so many women adore Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp? No? Well go figure, that’s because it’s freaking obvious. They’re famous, sexy and rich. Chances are that you, on the other hand, are neither famous or rich, in fact, even your good looks haven’t gotten you anywhere lately. But what if I told you that you can learn how to impress a girl even if you aren’t that rich or famous? Well brace yourself, because I’m going to share with you one of the most powerful insights into the mechanisms of attraction you’re going to learn.
Before I do that, though, let’s take a closer look at our “obvious” observation: the fact is, I’ve seen rich guys try to impress girls with their possessions and fail horribly – they either come off as posers or become “best friends”. Fame and money are fleeting, and you know it. While they last, they’re (at best) indicators for the character traits women seek in men. And you can fare wonderfully with the attributes nobody will ever take from you: find your personal value and play your cards right with it.
Now here’s the killer: men are are attracted physically, women are attracted emotionally. Spelled out, this means that while us men are attracted to looks first, women often go for emotional impressions. Bear in mind that I’m generalizing here and of course, both looks and personality count for both sexes, so don’t become a dirty slob in torn clothes now. But do realize that your qualification standards are not necessarily the same as a woman’s.
Rich men tend to be successful. Successful men are usually strong, competent, determined and reliable. Men with those traits are attractive: they have a direction in life and create the means to get there. How about you? Do you have something you’re passionate about? Everybody does, you know. Go get it! Be enthusiastic about it. Ask any woman if she’s attracted if a man has that sparkle in his eye while talking about something he loves, and she’ll confirm. Don’t become preachy though: and you’re not there to convert her.
Chances are you’ve achieved quite a few things in life. Search yourself and make a list of your accomplishments (exclude your gaming high scores from it). Feels good, huh? You’re not so bad! Now you can use that confidence: when you’re with a girl, drop these things into the conversation. Slowly reveal bits and pieces about you – and don’t make a huge fuss about it. “Yeah, it’s a bit like that time I ran my own photo exhibition at the Main Center.” Hey, if you can mention that just in passing, what else do you have up your sleeve? She’ll be impressed.
Note, though, that you want to play your cards right. Rubbing your awesomeness in her face in the first 15 minutes isn’t being impressive, it’s trying to impress. Doesn’t work. I saw two guys at an amateur filmmaker party: one was all too eager to show off his DSLR and commonplace technical knowledge. The other had a confident calm about him, he knew perfectly well what he could do. He would occasionally reveal bits about himself and the rest of the time, he’d show genuine interest in the people around him. He ended up with two girls in his arms, the other went home empty-handed way before the party was over.
You should also be an attentive listener. Turn off your mind and be in the present (e.g. focus on your breathing and be perfectly aware of your body): “empty” yourself and you can take in what she says entirely. If she tells you about her hobbies, ask yourself: why does she do it? Share the hobby or not, the underlying emotions are common to all humans, and you want to communicate with her on that level. Let’s say she likes white-water rafting: it’s about the adrenaline rush and the up-close contact with raw nature. Is she a reader? Then she might enjoy the peace that comes when she sits down with a book and a glass of wine.
These are just some “tools” on how to impress a girl even if you aren’t that rich. If you want more tips and techniques on how to attract gorgeous girls that normally wouldn’t go for you, you owe it to yourself to check out Double Your Dating. Ultimately, you have to realize that “being rich” is just not what it’s cracked up to be. With everything you do, you need to be genuine and authentic: know your qualities and display them with care.
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“The other had a confident calm about him, he knew perfectly well what he could do. He would occasionally reveal bits about himself and the rest of the time, he’d show genuine interest in the people around him.”
That is part good listener and part mystery. Since he doesn’t spill everything about himself there is still something to uncover later on which I think some women tend to enjoy. Who wants someone that will say everything on the first date and have nothing new on the second?
Great job explaining that you shouldn’t forcefully TRY to impress someone and instead you should casually mention bits about yourself in a conversation.
When you say:
“Note, though, that you want to play your cards right. Rubbing your awesomeness in her face in the first 15 minutes isn’t being impressive, it’s trying to impress. Doesn’t work.”
It pretty much sums it up perfectly.
You must compliment her at least once per date. But DO NOT compliment too much, that way she may see that you are trying too hard and may think that you only want her in bed. Try to compliment her at different times, not just one minute after you meet each other.
You must listen to her, either you like it or not. But girls are not like in the movies, they mostly talk about interesting things, not just shopping. Don’t forget important dates like her birthday, especially when there is no birthday party and you still remember to buy her a gift.
This is how you should try to impress her. I hope I helped
If you like a girl let her know before someone takes her if she really like you she will want to hang out with you and sit by you but they like to touch by hands or hold hands
Actually, there are girls that they don’t understand you if you tell them your feelings, they will act that they are they are the only girl in this world, i don’t suggest you guys to tell a girl about your feelings straightforward, first start from friendship and she will get used to you and then you can tell her
This was extremely helpful and well writen
i liked the suggestion
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Be honest to her and try to avoid her when you see coming and then go to her and say sorry was busy in work. This will give a thought in her mind that he noticed will he was working and did came back to me
today i come to know about the secret of impressing a girl through your articulate suggestion.
Actually different girls have different needs and mind. If you can come outdo their expectations and cover yourself with what girls like and get attracted to. However, be yourself and express to her what you have in your mind for her sincerely.
BE CONFIDENT TILL DEATH .avoid fear it grows.face fear it goes. she will be yours if u are calm and hard worker.
i am in love with a girl for more than 5 years, but because of an incident we are not in phase of seeing or talking to eachother, even both families know about this, they have also quarreld.
she did’t show any intrest in me, basically she lives in front of my house and whenever i am outside the house or at balcony she use to run away, i want to talk to her just once.
i know it is not attraction i am grown enough (24 yrs)
please help me, i just need a start.
thanking you
i was in love with a girl from past seven years,but now the problem is from since two years i was not able to meet her for some reasons and even when she had some problems but i was not able to help her and recently i met her ,i was shocked to know that she was trying to avoid me,please guide me through this situation……..plz
i don’t have any girl friend please give me some useful tips.
i still in love with a girl from past 10 years, but she dont love with me because she loving some other person. i know that but i cant because i loving sincerely,and she was telling not love feeling to you, she never i die, please guide me through this situation……..plzzzzzzzzz
actully i already have a girl friend but she is not like before she is hiding something