Comments on: How To Be Confident With Women http://www.artofseductions.com/how-to-be-confident-with-women/ Attraction Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:32:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Maggie http://www.artofseductions.com/how-to-be-confident-with-women/comment-page-1/#comment-17503 Maggie Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:13:45 +0000 http://www.artofseductions.com/?p=543#comment-17503 From a girl's perspective, if she was laying in bed with you, holding hands, and then rejected your advances, she's leading you on. In other words, she's encouraging your attention and even emotional intimacy from you, without any intention of ever engaging in physical intimacy with you. Why? Because she's lonely and likes your companionship, but she's not attracted enough to you for a sexual relationship. You need to move on to someone who IS attracted to you and not waste your time on this girl. From a girl’s perspective, if she was laying in bed with you, holding hands, and then rejected your advances, she’s leading you on. In other words, she’s encouraging your attention and even emotional intimacy from you, without any intention of ever engaging in physical intimacy with you. Why? Because she’s lonely and likes your companionship, but she’s not attracted enough to you for a sexual relationship. You need to move on to someone who IS attracted to you and not waste your time on this girl.

]]> By: Daniel http://www.artofseductions.com/how-to-be-confident-with-women/comment-page-1/#comment-16977 Daniel Sun, 22 Feb 2009 05:01:53 +0000 http://www.artofseductions.com/?p=543#comment-16977 From 1 to 10 how bad is the following and whats the cure that: We all know that it is extremely difficult to turn good friends into relationships or simple moments into intimate moments with those very good friends. Consider this, after a group meeting late in the evening you are left alone in a room with that good friend of yours, which also happens to be your dream girl. Now, somehow it happens that you are lying in a bad with your dream girl, in her room, late in the evening, holding hands, really close to each other, romantic music is even playing, momentum is right there … and you simply don’t do a single thing, just carry on with the small talk. Only a while after, when the moment has gone already you are able to summon all the courage you got to say how much you like her and what you think about her. Which, of course, happens to sound really cheesy, which makes her uncomfortable, to which she responds that it’s just too girlish for her or too much of a “nice guy” and you should forget about it. I’m just blown away… about how lame, cheesy and insecure I can suddenly get. And it’s not the first similar occasion. Please, any piece of advice or comments from the experts? From 1 to 10 how bad is the following and whats the cure that:
We all know that it is extremely difficult to turn good friends into relationships or simple moments into intimate moments with those very good friends. Consider this, after a group meeting late in the evening you are left alone in a room with that good friend of yours, which also happens to be your dream girl. Now, somehow it happens that you are lying in a bad with your dream girl, in her room, late in the evening, holding hands, really close to each other, romantic music is even playing, momentum is right there … and you simply don’t do a single thing, just carry on with the small talk. Only a while after, when the moment has gone already you are able to summon all the courage you got to say how much you like her and what you think about her. Which, of course, happens to sound really cheesy, which makes her uncomfortable, to which she responds that it’s just too girlish for her or too much of a “nice guy” and you should forget about it.

I’m just blown away… about how lame, cheesy and insecure I can suddenly get. And it’s not the first similar occasion.

Please, any piece of advice or comments from the experts?

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