Art Of Seduction

Friday, December 11, 2009

How To Attract Women

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If you want to know how to attract women into your life until you have so many that you can’t possibly handle any more, then read on… one word of warning though, when you turn it on, you can’t make it stop! You see, when you become an attractive person, people will be drawn to you no matter what you do.

It’s like a beautiful girl walking down the street, can she really do anything to stop guys from looking at her? Well, she could dress up ugly and not wear any makeup, but you know what? It still wouldn’t work, people would still pay attention to her because her beauty glows. I’m going to show you how to be so attractive that you’ll even get attention when you’re feeling down and you’re having a bad day. By the way, this stuff is a little deeper than usual but I promise it will be worth it.

What attracts women

One of the things that I tend to hear a lot in the comments is that guys try to trick or convince women to like them. It’s as if women aren’t supposed to attracted to them but if they learn the right stuff, you can trick them into liking you. Stop! Because that’s not how it works! You can’t trick anyone into liking you. Women are much more perceptive than men and they’ll smell any technique that you try to use a mile away.

The real answer to what attracts women is: men.

Yes, as blatantly simple as that sounds, that’s what women want. In the same way that heterosexual guys want girls, girls want guys. So just by being you, you already have all the material to attract a woman. The second you walk into a room, women are going to be attracted to you JUST because you’re a guy. You don’t even have to do or say anything, just being you is attractive.

In fact, some guys tend to screw it up by saying too many things.

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Don’t try to convince a woman to like you!

As soon as you go into “let’s convince her to like me” mode, you’re instantly communicating this message instead: “I don’t think that I’m good enough for you, so I’m going to try to win you over.”

Instead, the attractive man realizes and KNOWS that women like him just because of who he is.

But first, he must like himself. So that’s what you have to do is you want to attract women, you need to like yourself. Here’s the reasoning behind it: The person in the world that knows you better than anyone else is… yourself. So if you know yourself better than ANYONE else, and you dislike yourself, then what does that say about you?

It means that somewhere, deep down inside, there’s something that’s wrong with you. People might not be able to see it, but they’ll take your word for it.

Be Beautiful

Well now that I’ve told you what makes you unattractive to women, all you need to do to be a chick magnet (I can’t believe I just used that term) is do the complete opposite. If you love yourself, and I mean that in a truly genuine way, in the sense that you’re proud of who you are and what you’re doing in life, it will show. People will assume that you like yourself for a good reason and they’ll assume that you’re a likable person. How you feel about yourself is something that you just can’t fake and it will immediately show when you meet someone.

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You know what liking yourself does? It creates curiosity in others. Girls will automatically be curious to know… “Why does this guy like himself so much? What IS it that makes him smile? Why is he so happy?

The absolute best part is that when you concentrate on creating a great life for yourself, you’ll actually have answers to all those questions. Maybe you’re smiling because you just came back from windsurfing, or maybe even because you run a successful business. Maybe you’re happy because you’re helping people or because you take care of your body. When you create reasons to be passionate about yourself, others will be passionate about you as well.

So that’s it, if you want to know how to attract women at the deepest level, you need to have hundreds of reasons why you love yourself and wouldn’t trade places with anyone else in the world. When you reach this state, women will flock to you like seagulls on french fries, and you won’t be able to turn it off. Physically, you’ll wake up with a smile and walk around with your head up straight, proud of being who you are.

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6 Comments »

  1. I love my girl but it as if she is not open to me, so how do i find out? I dont want to compromise

    Eze Emma c
    December 14, 2009 at 11:42 pm
  2. One girl started friendship with me,in last 2-3 months she is calling me intensive to hang out or something (but always with other people,never alone)…i didn’t care much,she always complained how i never remember to call her…than something suddenly happened last week. I started to feel something for her…last night i tried to kiss her,but she told me that she wanna be just friends… she is kind of coquette, flirting with others,and wanna be in the center of happening, wanna make a lot of guys to fall in love with her. Not what i should do to make her want me? If you have some suggestion or more questions please write. Thank you

    Dejan
    December 17, 2009 at 10:11 pm
  3. Eze emma: if u want her to be open, be open to her. She might be shy, proud, not sure of how you think/feel about her. make a straight move towards her heart. ask, listen.

    deliah
    January 14, 2010 at 8:29 am
  4. Hey, I love a girl who is very cheerful but already had a boyfriend..
    Is it possible for me to approach that girl??
    Thanks..
    Best regard, Akass

    Akass Rasyid
    January 29, 2010 at 9:42 pm
  5. i think i know how to attract women but im failing to manage them because we become friends if not enemies at the EnD

    martin
    February 16, 2010 at 3:53 am
  6. Well, there is girl who seemed to be interested in me but after a great crash in our relationship “that she only took me as a friend really drive me as a nerd” but although knowing about my intentions to her she talked with me by calling me twice as i can remember. That’s all .. but she is still in touch with my cousin with that i never thought she would. Are there any possibilities that she can take me as her love in future?

    skash
    February 27, 2010 at 2:36 am

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