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Why Real Men Get All The Women

by The Bright Side on October 13, 2010, Revised on: February 25th, 2012

If you’ve ever seen any action movies, then you’ll know that it’s usually the most bad-ass, reckless hero that gets all the women. The guy that takes the trash out and looks cool doing it, the guy that doesn’t settle for second best, the guy that will beat you down if you disrespect him… yeah, that guy… HE gets all the girls. If you want to be the guy that women dream of, then read on because we’re going to pull a quick 180 and have women dripping over you in no time.

Real Men know: They already love me

Back in the day (and by that, I mean before my balls dropped) when I was around girls, I used to think about how I could attract them to me. Ironically, the only thing I’d actually do was tense up and behave like a chicken with his head cut off. Guess whom I went home with on those nights? That’s right. I went home with myself and my broken ego.

Things got better when I realized that women spend as much time looking for a partner as us men do. It’s not a thought you have to switch on inside her before she considers you as a mate. No, she does that by default.

That’s because attraction is a natural process between men and women. It’s just there.

Don’t force it

Some women quickly decide they’re not interested in you, though. If that’s the case, deal with it and move on.

If she checks you out, or smiles at you, plays with her hair, asks you questions, you can assume she’s curious. Now, you can either nip that in the bud or give it room to grow. Remember: you force it, you kill it. So: next time, try being calm, relaxed, and laid-back.

Treat her like your pal, not some great light that’s entered your drab, wretched existence and brightened up the gloom and dismay with the radiant smile of divinity. Just talk to her, and give her the space to check you out more.

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{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

E October 13, 2010 at 8:19 pm

Good stuff bright side u should send out emails too would like to get your insight in other things as well

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Eye contact! October 13, 2010 at 8:43 pm

Eye contact, eye contact, and eye contact.

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Troy December 3, 2010 at 12:15 am

my weakness is that I cant keep eye contact for too long cos my eyes always get sore and sometimes (I hate to admit this) teary…grrrr

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crimson101 December 3, 2010 at 4:17 pm

It’s game on now, with such advice, all the honies and hotties will be BAIT Hehehe!

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