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Wednesday, September 26, 2007

How to attract girls

If you know how to attract girls, then chasing women won’t be necessary as they will come to you. When a woman is chasing you instead of the other way around, it is much easier to be relaxed and have a good time instead of concentrating on what to do next.

So what attracts people, and more specifically girls ? Things that are out of the ordinary. If you blend in with the rest of the world, then no one will ever notice you walking down the street, or in any location for that matter. How do most people blend ? By following what everyone else does and this leads to catastrophic results when trying to attract women.

Being a follower is boring and speaks a lot about your personality. It shows that you are insecure to try new things and that you don’t want attention. Now the trick to being noticed is not to dress up in bright yellow colors, but to add one interesting item to your physical appearance. There are a few guidelines to selecting the proper attire that will attract women without making you look like a fool.

First steps to being more attractive.
First, take into consideration what kind of social setting you will be in. If you’re going to a club, then you can go all out with outlandish clothing and accessories. However, if you’re going to the library, it would be more effective to carefully choose one single attention drawing accessory.

For clubs, keep in mind that you want to look different than everyone else. If everyone else is dressed up with expensive clothing, then wearing something cheap will work better. You’ll automatically be classified as the ‘guy who doesn’t care’, which can be very attractive.

If you’re at a place where people are dressed like bums, then feel free to dress up a little more and you’ll automatically be seen as ‘the only classy guy’ in the place.

Sometimes clothing itself can make a large enough difference, however accessories can further improve your magnetism throughout the day. Something unique that represents you is the ideal thing. Let’s say you enjoy biking, then you could have a necklace with a bicycle on it for instance. Then, in a social situation, people will notice and comment on your accessories.

The more out-of-the-ordinary your accessories are, the more you will get noticed. However, you must be able to continue the conversation and match the boldness of your accessory with your personality. Once you learned how to attract girls, you’ll need to learn how to keep them.

The attitude that you have is more important than all the clothes, money and looks in the world. Its cliche, but personality is more important to women than looks. In fact, there are a few secret techniques that will make you irresistible to women regardless of appearance. One of the most effective techniques is called “Cocky / Funny” in the the Double Your Dating book by David Deangelo. It teaches all the fundamental and advanced ways on how to ATTRACT girls and keep them attracted to you permanently.

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Written By Chris Calo  

16 Comments »

  1. great tips. I find myself disappointed when I go to the bar with a nice collared shirt and jeans, only to find every single person looks just like

    Comment by Peter — September 28, 2007 @ 7:34 pm

  2. How to attract girls…

    Through the use of extensive preparation, the author explains how to attract girls in a few simples steps….

    Trackback by Anonymous — October 2, 2007 @ 9:38 pm

  3. hey man it really worked and i used your advice in high school.

    Comment by lucas — January 16, 2008 @ 5:25 pm

  4. Thanks alot for making this web site for people like me. The part ware you sayed to ware something like a necklace that they would notice and the necklace ment something to you that you could talk about to them. Just something to start a conversation.

    Comment by lucas — January 16, 2008 @ 5:29 pm

  5. smart idea

    Comment by lucas — January 16, 2008 @ 5:29 pm

  6. Nice entry. How about posting some tips on flirting? I think I would like to hear more abt flirtings. :D

    Comment by halim — January 31, 2008 @ 8:29 pm

  7. Very cool advice. I agree most with the last one. I believe attitude is everything when dating. Confidence and self-assuredness goes a long way in making someone much more attractive.

    Comment by Kelly (blushgirl) Jones — February 5, 2008 @ 10:13 pm

  8. Get a machine that makes woman want to take their clothes off….its called a mercedes ;)

    Comment by Danny — May 2, 2008 @ 10:34 pm

  9. very good but u have to find more than this

    Comment by Prana Dawadi — May 19, 2008 @ 10:45 pm

  10. Yeah, good with tips. I’m rather Anti Social, and always have been but I like your guidelines, simple, but actually effective : /

    Comment by Sybreeno (Nor) — May 22, 2008 @ 6:38 am

  11. nice tips thnx

    Comment by minger — May 27, 2008 @ 1:56 pm

  12. Good steps given, I hope this will lead to make me more seductive

    Comment by MUNSHI — June 16, 2008 @ 7:59 am

  13. Yeah i wore a cool looking shirt once and the lady i was with asked me why i had the shirt on i was wearing. All i said was that i didn’t care. but you gotta have something more creative than that.

    Comment by HA — June 16, 2008 @ 9:18 pm

  14. Not everybody can go and buy new clothes and all that other stuff. This might work for rich people but not the everyday ordinary guy.

    Comment by The Guy — July 3, 2008 @ 1:16 pm

  15. I like this article.

    Comment by T k — July 15, 2008 @ 5:18 pm

  16. very goooooooooooooood

    Comment by saman — August 31, 2008 @ 4:04 am

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