How to attract girls
If you know how to attract girls, then chasing women won’t be necessary as they will come to you. When a woman is chasing you instead of the other way around, it is much easier to be relaxed and have a good time instead of concentrating on what to do next.
So what attracts people, and more specifically girls ? Things that are out of the ordinary. If you blend in with the rest of the world, then no one will ever notice you walking down the street, or in any location for that matter. How do most people blend ? By following what everyone else does and this leads to catastrophic results when trying to attract women.
Being a follower is boring and speaks a lot about your personality. It shows that you are insecure to try new things and that you don’t want attention. Now the trick to being noticed is not to dress up in bright yellow colors, but to add one interesting item to your physical appearance. There are a few guidelines to selecting the proper attire that will attract women without making you look like a fool.
First steps to being more attractive.
First, take into consideration what kind of social setting you will be in. If you’re going to a club, then you can go all out with outlandish clothing and accessories. However, if you’re going to the library, it would be more effective to carefully choose one single attention drawing accessory.
For clubs, keep in mind that you want to look different than everyone else. If everyone else is dressed up with expensive clothing, then wearing something cheap will work better. You’ll automatically be classified as the ‘guy who doesn’t care’, which can be very attractive.
If you’re at a place where people are dressed like bums, then feel free to dress up a little more and you’ll automatically be seen as ‘the only classy guy’ in the place.
Sometimes clothing itself can make a large enough difference, however accessories can further improve your magnetism throughout the day. Something unique that represents you is the ideal thing. Let’s say you enjoy biking, then you could have a necklace with a bicycle on it for instance. Then, in a social situation, people will notice and comment on your accessories.
The more out-of-the-ordinary your accessories are, the more you will get noticed. However, you must be able to continue the conversation and match the boldness of your accessory with your personality. Once you learned how to attract girls, you’ll need to learn how to keep them.
The attitude that you have is more important than all the clothes, money and looks in the world. Its cliche, but personality is more important to women than looks. In fact, there are a few secret techniques that will make you irresistible to women regardless of appearance. One of the most effective techniques is called “Cocky / Funny” in the the Double Your Dating book by David Deangelo. It teaches all the fundamental and advanced ways on how to ATTRACT girls and keep them attracted to you permanently.
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great tips. I find myself disappointed when I go to the bar with a nice collared shirt and jeans, only to find every single person looks just like
Comment by Peter — September 28, 2007 @ 7:34 pm
How to attract girls…
Through the use of extensive preparation, the author explains how to attract girls in a few simples steps….
Trackback by Anonymous — October 2, 2007 @ 9:38 pm
hey man it really worked and i used your advice in high school.
Comment by lucas — January 16, 2008 @ 5:25 pm
Thanks alot for making this web site for people like me. The part ware you sayed to ware something like a necklace that they would notice and the necklace ment something to you that you could talk about to them. Just something to start a conversation.
Comment by lucas — January 16, 2008 @ 5:29 pm
smart idea
Comment by lucas — January 16, 2008 @ 5:29 pm
Nice entry. How about posting some tips on flirting? I think I would like to hear more abt flirtings.
Comment by halim — January 31, 2008 @ 8:29 pm
Very cool advice. I agree most with the last one. I believe attitude is everything when dating. Confidence and self-assuredness goes a long way in making someone much more attractive.
Comment by Kelly (blushgirl) Jones — February 5, 2008 @ 10:13 pm
Get a machine that makes woman want to take their clothes off….its called a mercedes
Comment by Danny — May 2, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
very good but u have to find more than this
Comment by Prana Dawadi — May 19, 2008 @ 10:45 pm
Yeah, good with tips. I’m rather Anti Social, and always have been but I like your guidelines, simple, but actually effective : /
Comment by Sybreeno (Nor) — May 22, 2008 @ 6:38 am
nice tips thnx
Comment by minger — May 27, 2008 @ 1:56 pm
Good steps given, I hope this will lead to make me more seductive
Comment by MUNSHI — June 16, 2008 @ 7:59 am
Yeah i wore a cool looking shirt once and the lady i was with asked me why i had the shirt on i was wearing. All i said was that i didn’t care. but you gotta have something more creative than that.
Comment by HA — June 16, 2008 @ 9:18 pm
Not everybody can go and buy new clothes and all that other stuff. This might work for rich people but not the everyday ordinary guy.
Comment by The Guy — July 3, 2008 @ 1:16 pm
I like this article.
Comment by T k — July 15, 2008 @ 5:18 pm
very goooooooooooooood
Comment by saman — August 31, 2008 @ 4:04 am
I have a problem in how to get closer to girls. I think some of them would like me to be their boyfriend. But I don’t know how to talk with them. Suggest me something, please!!!
Comment by getachew — October 3, 2008 @ 5:32 am
thanks u Chris calo , hope that works !!
Comment by zead — November 23, 2008 @ 4:15 pm
i tried this and it really worked!! the only thing is that her sisters and step mom are now hitting on me as well!!
Comment by mack j — December 5, 2008 @ 11:42 am
Yeah i wore a cool looking shirt once and the lady i was with asked me why i had the shirt on i was wearing. All i said was that i didn’t care. but you gotta have something more creative than that.
Comment by Underground Seduction — December 8, 2008 @ 12:34 pm
i love a girl and i cant tell her that i love her.
i wonder if she dont be agree with me.
please give me the best advise
i’ll be thankfull of you
bye
Comment by khairullah — January 18, 2009 @ 11:01 am
I find not looking/not caring the best way, I’m handsome but no Casanova. Just dress smartly and get on with life, stuff comes along, probably different in adulthood though…I’m guessing
Comment by Don't Care — March 30, 2009 @ 10:39 am
very nice
Comment by mahbub — May 20, 2009 @ 4:11 am
Walking around campus is a great place to meet college girls. If you see a girl that you want to talk to, don’t just stare at her. Look in her eyes and when she looks at you smile. If she smiles back, stop and say hi and ask her what her name is. Don’t tell her your name unless she asks because a girl who is interested will ask for your name. If she asks for your name get her for her phone number, and then tell her it was nice meeting her, you gotta go to class.
Comment by Bishal — June 14, 2009 @ 9:07 pm
Hey guys. I am a girl, and I can give you the true key to attracting the girl you like. ASK HER OUT ON A DATE! For some reason, boys these days think its okay to let her make the first move. That makes you a wimp, and I’m sick of it. Grow a pair, and just ask her to go out with you. She will BE ATTRACTED TO YOU if you do. If you’re too wimpy to do that, you aren’t mature enough to date. You might be afraid of rejection… well boo hoo get over it girls have to deal with that constantly. Just trust me… IF YOU LIKE HER, ASK HER OUT.
Comment by Shellie — June 21, 2009 @ 11:30 pm
Harsh words from Shellie, but the thing is, shes right… Of course, after that, you need a way to get her to WANT you, right? I may offer the ‘up-down’ suggestion, which worked incredibly for me… I had my eyes on a girl for the longest time and after i grew the balls to ask her out, i used the first date to find out what really made her emotionally happy and emotionally tic. Basically, what you want to do is make her really happy the first day, (sorry) make her cry the next, make her happy again, piss her off the next, then happy one more time. It took me only 4 days to get Carly begging for me and telling me she loved me and needed me. Its a dark art i know, but if you want to try something new, this is the way to go. Good luck out there! Oh yeah, try this guy’s clothing methods, he knows what he’s talking about… Peace
Comment by Armond — July 7, 2009 @ 10:34 pm
Great post. I know for a fact that you can meet women without taking any consideration in how you dress. As long as you demonstrate that you are a cool, fun guy to be around then it really does not matter.
However I do feel that it can help. It is not the difference between success and failure but as I say, ‘Every little helps’. Or was that tesco. Anyways the point I am making is, anything you can do to increase your chance of success should be done. Obviously don’t go over the top. Just spend a little extra time on your apperance and you should notice that your ability to meet and attract women increases.
Comment by Preston Blain — July 25, 2009 @ 10:18 am
hey guys im going to the park with the girl i like on tue. got any pointers for me?
Comment by Nick — July 25, 2009 @ 8:01 pm
Very beautiful girls are attracted to only MONEY. They doesn’t even care about the attitude, looks or anything else. They are just behind the money u have and some girls are even crazy to go abroad. This is the fact!
Comment by Gautham — August 9, 2009 @ 7:14 am
Nice pointers,think i will try them out.
Comment by Lester — August 27, 2009 @ 2:18 pm
Thank you for everybody’s valuable responses…
Comment by Joel — October 15, 2009 @ 8:34 pm
so this just means that shy guys got no luck with girls eh?
if a guy doesn’t have the courage to go and ask a girl out he’ll never get a gf?
Comment by L — November 10, 2009 @ 1:13 am
The art of seduction is much more involved than that, but what really works is having money and spending it on the girl…Gifts, shopping, shoes, compliment them on their shoes, they love that. If you have no money, and you are not handsome, you are in a bind. My suggestion to you would be to pick an unsecured girl and flat out ask her out. Say: “I know we are gonna be great together, so I want to take you out.”
Good Luck
Comment by A — November 15, 2009 @ 12:58 am
Gautham is right. Beautiful girls are only attracted to money. Money makes them happy. All this talk how to make a woman feel attraction for you may work in the beginning but doesn’t last very long. Dump them before they dump you. That’s what always do, same thing goes if you have money. Dump them before they take all yours. Stay away from attractive rich girls they’re boring , brainless and a waste of time anyways. Excluding the fat ugly rich girls. They’re okay to date for awhile if you need the extra cash. Drop the books down because this is the best piece of advice you’ll ever get about how to deal with woman. Don’t get married don’t get into any long term relationships and never worry about being lonely cause you’re going to get cancer and die anyways. Treat every woman like shit and you’re better then them. Do what ever you can to get them in bed then cut them loose – wipe your hands clean. Cheat, lie and if you can get away with it beat. Remember your a man and they are just a woman. Take care
Comment by Hogan — November 17, 2009 @ 9:41 pm
i don’t want to attract anyone and i can’t change my nature for any listen all i am what I am so and that’s all that i am this is the fact so this is my advice to everyone that never try to change yourself because sometimes in this process you’ll lose your personality and confidence.
Comment by awais ali shah — December 3, 2009 @ 11:13 am
Excellent information for guys looking to attract women.
Attitude is everything, and women definitely respond to men with a confident attitude.
Hopefully along with the other tips you provided men will better understand and attract women easier.
Comment by Pleg — December 6, 2009 @ 1:05 pm
@A: I have to disagree with you on that one. Spending money on girls is definitely not the way to “get them”. In fact, when you just give gifts to girls, you’re actually communicating: “I don’t think I’m good enough for you, so I’m buying you this gift so you’ll like me”
@Hogan: That’s horrible advice to give guys.. It sounds like you’ve been hurt and that’s OK. I think we’ve all gone through that but you have to realize that women are great to have in your life and they are attracted to a hundred things that aren’t related to money.
@Pleg: Thanks!
Seriously, there seems to be a lot of confusion on how to attract women here. If you put your email on the right for the coaching program I have, I’ll show you exactly how to attract girls (and it has nothing to do with money).
Comment by Chris Calo — December 9, 2009 @ 8:06 pm
A good aftershave might work, i always wear some and everyone comments. Dont wear cheap aftershave though, invest in a proper one, armani code is a hit with the ladies!
Comment by Dylam — December 13, 2009 @ 8:07 pm
Very Very NIce
Comment by rokib khan — December 18, 2009 @ 10:43 am
I’m bored attracting gals in the same old way. I must try your way. Thanks for the info pal.
Comment by Antony — January 5, 2010 @ 3:10 am
I have always had an interesting but not ‘far out’ fashion sense, I too have accessories that girls comment on eg a skate brand belt buckle. I recommend this!
Comment by chris — January 15, 2010 @ 8:47 pm