Get a Girl To Like You
A simple, quick way to get a girl to like you is to remember the little details and then casually insert them into your conversation at a later date. The problem is that guys tend to remember larger things and women appreciate the details. Do you remember what she was wearing the first time you saw her? Probably not… but she will.
Getting a girl to like you isn’t just about remembering little details either, it’s also about triggering massive attraction right from the start. One of the gurus on this subject is David DeAngelo, he teaches guys how to create massive attraction in any situation.
Once you have attraction, and you’re fairly confident about the situation, the easiest way to really have all the details sink in is not to concentrate on remembering the details, but to really be passionate about the situation that you’re in. The more your truly devote yourself to that situation, the more the little details will stick.
Contrastingly, the more you are aloof and distracted, the more you will miss the subtle little details that show her that you really care. Humans, especially women, need to know that you really care, and being knowledgeable of the little details is one of the best ways to show this. Not to mention, the little details of your relationship are things that only you two share. Not even her best friend will know what she wore on your first date, so if you know, then you’ll be that much more ahead of things.
A fair warning about this… subtle details are great but don’t overdo them. Bring them up if they are appropriate, but sprinkle them throughout your interactions instead of fully using them.
For example, saying: “Hey remember that our first date, when you wore that top and those pants, yeah… I liked those” is really odd and out of place.
Instead, if she happens to wear the same shirt that she wore on your first date, mentioning: “Didn’t you wear that when we first met? That was a good day!” would come off much better. The difference is that one is sincere and natural, the other is manufactured.
Don’t manufacture your comments, let them come to you naturally! It’s the little details that count when you’re trying to get a girl to like you, remember them and you’ll reap the rewards.
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Comment by junior — October 9, 2008 @ 10:05 am
I loved a girl.. I have been trying to get her.. Already. 3 Years. We broke up just because of 1 lie. I know i shouldn’t have lied. So i wrote her a letter. To forgive me.. But. She got more angry. Can you please help me? I really love her.
Comment by Leon — November 14, 2008 @ 12:53 am
Leon: The sad truth is that if you wrote her a letter asking for her forgiveness and she got more angry, then there are other forces acting here that you need to handle first.
First of all… it sounds as if you’re a little concentrated on this one girl. Have you seen any other girls in these 3 years? If not, then you should.
Keep on reading the site and I’m sure you’ll get a few insights on what went wrong… and it’s not just 1 lie.
Although 1 lie could have been the catalyst for the breakup, it’s not 1 thing that ends an entire relationship.
Comment by Chris Calo — November 14, 2008 @ 10:43 am
i have this friend who lives down my street and ive known her for a long while and shes liked me for so long and I’ve liked her but we’ve never dated, and recently i met her friend and i fell for her slightly and overtime I’ve fallen for her and i did the “tell the girl how you feel” thing I’ve heard about, and its gotten weird and shes taking it well and all it seems but its gotten weird now sorta. what should i do ? i really like her and want to be with her..
Comment by Lance — November 20, 2008 @ 4:15 pm
i have liked this girl forever and we went out once but didn’t work. We have been friends forever and i haven’t stopped liking her. Yes i have had other girlfriends but when I’m around her i just fall for her. She said she liked me just a little but she wouldn’t go out with me because my ex still likes me. I really like her and might love her…
Comment by Josh — November 22, 2008 @ 9:55 pm
ive really liked this girl since ive known her but never really knew how much until i stayed at her house one night and we kissed during the night. she woke up the next day and didnt speak about it and hasnt since, until it got out and people started talkin and she got angry at me for telling people.
its hard because her cousin lives with her and i am his best friend so its really awkward because of the friendship i have with her cousin, they are like brothers and sisters!
i think she has liked me for some time but never been quite sure! but now i just want to ask her out because we will be moving apart because of educational preferences! how should i approach her knowing wot happened? i really, truly love this girl but im not quite sure if she knows how much!! help?? cool i not this much of a romantic type until this one girl so its quite unusual to ask how to go about your life!!
Comment by dave — January 1, 2009 @ 2:34 pm