Art Of Seduction

Thursday, May 22, 2008

First Date Tips

Every relationship has a start, here are some first date tips that can ignite a passionate and exciting evening. First date

1. Place the odds in your favor by positioning yourself in a comfortable environment and activity.

If you’ve never tried roller blading before, it might not the best idea to try it on a first date. It is however, perfectly acceptable to have your date try something new for the first time. This has two effects, first it naturally demonstrates that you are a leader and subsequently, you can be more at ease which is another attractive quality.

2. Make it personalized to her. During time pre-date contact you have had with the girl, you usually can piece a little information about her. Use the little bits that you know about her and apply it to the date. If it feels generic, then it won’t be special.

3. Contrastingly, if you are single and going on frequent ‘first dates’, then it can be a good idea to establish a ‘favorite date’ routine. For example, if there’s a zoo nearby and you’ve been on 2 dates at the zoo in the past month, then you’ll pretty much know exactly what to do, what to say, where to go. Practice makes perfect, even in dates. It might be repetitive for you, but unless you tell her (and don’t!), she won’t know you’ve been on that same date ‘route’ 2-3 times before.

4. Lead the way. In nature, the male tends to be dominant and lead. You can either think of it as a burden or as a privilege, but it’s much more enjoyable to think of it as a privilege. So suggest things, lead the way towards things that you want to do. If she doesn’t want to, she’ll object and from there, you can both agree on something.

5. Be yourself… but be your best self. If you’re going to show a side of yourself on a date, then mind as well show her the good side of you! Trust me, you’ll have plenty of time to show her the lesser sides of you later on. On a date, she wants to see your dominant playful side! So if it’s hiding in there somewhere, bring it out.

With these first date tips in mind, you’ll be better prepared to have a more enjoyable date, for both you and her. As usual, if you’re looking for ways to create massive attraction during the date, I would recommend reading the book Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. He presents ways to turn any normal date into a hot adventure you’ll never forget.

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Written By Chris Calo  

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5 Comments »

  1. All my first dates are the best. the first date must be speacial, something they will remember. i usually take my date to a concert, a nba game, a festival or Amusement park . somewhere we can spend a lot of time talking and having fun.

    Jamal Brooklyn
    July 25, 2009 at 8:01 pm
  2. i read this and follow rules i feel best Date in My life & off couese her also thanks

    khalil
    January 15, 2010 at 3:16 am
  3. What if my Girlfriend is loving someone else, what should i do

    David
    January 22, 2010 at 11:52 am
  4. David, if you think she loves somebody else then ask her. remember truth is important and you need to find out otherise it will trouble you. And the relationship cant go anywhere without trust.

    matthew
    March 9, 2010 at 4:52 pm
  5. Hey mathew so true but dont be 2 open aboutt everytin and chris calo ur number four can come across as sexist 1 big thing is let her choose u just make sure u truly love her and at the end to make her feel special just drive 2 a park (only if its gettin dark out and u can see the stars) lay in the grass next to her and compare her beauty to the nite sky look over at her (if she doesnt look at u try another compliment) move a strand of hair from her face and say “ur more beautifull than any star in the sky”lean in slowly and kiss her (no tongue though its only the first date)

    hope it helped ur friend

    Nicolice
    August 4, 2010 at 12:07 am

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