Recently, I found a great article on CNN on easy ways to be an optimist and I thought… Wow, I bet a lot of guys could really use this!

You know, when you’re trying to get better with women, you’re going to have a lot of set backs.

Keep in mind that what really matters is:
It’s about how fast you can bounce back on your feet after you get knocked down.

Now the article “Easy ways to be an optimist” provides some of my personal favorite ways to stay optimistic in those situations.
1- Smile, the muscles in your face affect your mood
2- Focus, what you focus on will determine how you feel.

http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/06/24/how.2b.optimist/index.html