“You reap what you’ve sown”. “Life’s what you make it”. Don’t you love those catchphrases that contain a world of value in just a few words? I have another one for you that is both easy to remember and powerful in its message: “stop needing, start wanting”. It’s time you take some steps to learn how to stop being needy: today’s article is about transforming it into a strong notion of “wanting”.

Stop needing

Life’s not fair. Did you ever notice how you attract women best when you’re on an emotional high, when every bit of your life is 100% under your control? You have a virtual aura of success and happiness around you. But what happens when things go south, you lose your job, get dumped, experience a tragedy? In these moments, when you actually really need somebody by your side, you lose all your attractiveness. Doesn’t it suck?

For many people, that sense of “needing” something or somebody to fulfill their life is more than just a passing state triggered by bad circumstances. They live with a constant feeling of incompleteness, of lack. Needy people are also known as “Energy Vampires”: instead of enriching the life experience of others with their presence, radiance and positivity, they drain these things from their peers in an attempt to fill their void inside, or replenish their dried-up resources. Doing so, they leave others feeling depleted and negative.

Stop worrying

One surefire way to destroy anybody’s attraction or affection is to throw self-deprecating remarks: “I bore everybody to tears”, you say, and then you sit there, staring into the void with morosity. I’ve seen people do this at social gatherings, parties, or within small groups of close friends.

This is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Think about it: most people who spend time with you do so because they like you. You, however, soon start worrying about what they think, frowning and fretting in their presence: then, when they’re no longer cheery around you, you inevitably conclude that you’re a boring dope. What’s next? Depression?

If you hadn’t worried in the first place, none of this would have happened.

Start living a life of abundance

You want to move your points of reference inside: from now on, make the love you have for yourself your main measure for a good life. How can outside events throw you off-track if your strength is rooted inside?
Here are a few notions you should make friends with as quickly and deeply as possible:

1. It’s okay to love what you see in the mirror.

If you don’t like it yet, go out and buy the kinds of clothes you feel great in, change your facial hair, practice your smile, train yourself to raise one eyebrow, do some sports. Whatever you feel suits your personal likes and ideals is what makes you awesome – and it’s okay to look in the mirror and say: “I am awesome”. Other people do NOT want to have to tell you that so you’ll feel good. They want somebody who already feels good about themselves. Become that person.

2. You have great talents and qualities.

You are musical. You can fix things. You have amazing facial features. You are tall. You are strong. You can memorize things in an instant. You have no trouble learning new languages. You have a strong voice. Your pencil drawings are amazing. You protected the weak back in school. You love your parents. You are sociable. Does any of this apply to you? What else is there? Get hobbies, read books about the areas in your life you want to improve, take action, follow your passions!

Start Wanting Wealth and Abundance

When you have that down, you will stop needing. Now, you can start WANTING: consider the shift in your priorities. You now know that you will do great even if you lose your job, your car explodes, your house gets annexed by aliens, your friends move away, you don’t have a girl. You’ll do fine just because you know you have strengths, qualities, achievements, looks.

You are then in a position to let a woman know: “I don’t need you in my life. But I do want you.” This is a powerful notion! She will realize that your life is great as it is, but you want to make it even better by having her in it – how different does that sound from “my life is shitty, please be with me so it becomes bearable.” After you master how to stop being needy, you will feel less afraid to talk to women and attract them: your inner strength allows you to go out and enrich others’ lives with your reality.

You know that Green Day song “Nice Guys finish last”? When it comes to dating and women, this may be the most important thing you learn. Don’t be a “wuss”. Cuddly lapdogs may be cute and adorable, but if you’re the human equivalent, guess what: you are not getting laid. Today, I would like to add some extra vertebrae to your spine. Here we go: four new tips for your integrity.

1. Know your values and expectations.

If you don’t know what you want in life, and in a woman, then you can’t go out looking for it. Oftentimes, we feel uneasy during an interaction or conversation, or we have some inner gripes about the way we’re being treated. However, the feeling is just a tad too vague: we can’t exactly put our finger on it and it’s not enough to push us over the edge. Heck, in fact, most of the times the feeling is there plain as day, but we simply don’t pay attention! Think about this: “A girl you were supposed to see calls you up and says: “Oh, I can’t go out on Friday, I’m meeting up with friends”. We feel uncomfortable, but we don’t listen to the emotion. I want you to take the first step: explore yourself and find what makes you uneasy. Some major signs that you are letting yourself be pushed around:

- She walks all over you.
- She’s flaking on you without valid reasons.
- She (ab)uses you.
- She’s not there when you need her.

2. Listen to your feelings.

Let me expand that: monitor your feelings while you’re interacting, live, right there and then. A woman may well do something that turns you off, and most of the times, she’s not even aware of the implications of her actions. That’s why it’s so important for you to be aware of your emotional responses. I used to think to myself after an interaction: “you know what? That person actually pulled a pretty mean one on me! And I let it slide.” Instead, I should have asserted myself and called her on her actions. When you aren’t afraid to call others out on their actions, you’ll be walking with your head high.

Of course, this goes for good responses as well. When somebody makes you feel great, that is something you should mention and reward! Make that emotion conscious, show it, and live it fully!

3. Assert your boundaries.

Once you realize where your standpoint, assert it. I’ll tell you something about me: I am into smart and ambitious women with many facets. I was on a date with a girl who had only one thing to show for herself: “I like to get drunk with my friends every weekend.” It turned me off big time, but I didn’t say it.

I would do so now, and so should you! “You know what? That’s kind of a turnoff for me.” What have you got to lose? It turns you off, right? So state the fact. It’s up to her to react. Other examples:

- “I get the feeling you’re only calling me when you want something. Sorry, I don’t want that kind of relationship.”
- “You stood me up once. If you’re planning to do it again, perhaps we should stop wasting each other’s time right now.”
- “You just want to be friends? Great! Then I’ll introduce you to my single friends and you can do the same for me.”

4. Don’t be afraid to piss them off.

You probably noticed that the above may entail pissing a person off. Well, know what? It’s either them or you. Sure, it’s great to be friends with somebody, and we all want our human touch and good vibes. But how far are you willing to go for that? There are tons of people out there who could truly make you happy in return for you investing in them. By asserting yourself, you make your point very clear. If the other person values you, they will comply. If they don’t – well, you just saved yourself (and them!) valuable time and energy.

The fact of the matter is that your backbone is an important part of your attractiveness. These four tips for your integrity will not only make you more confident and happy, they will also help you be more attractive: if you show that you won’t just bend with the wind, you will earn respect and female affection. You become a leader, not a follower: you’re the one in control of your reality now.

If there’s one common re-occurrence in the world of dating, it’s the fact that seemingly all guys get to a point where they say: “There’s just this one girl… I love this girl, you have to help me!”. Unfortunately, most of the time these guys haven’t even talked to this girl yet! So let’s make it clear right now, if you’re in love with a girl and you haven’t talked to her yet, then it’s not love. It might be lust, infatuation, attraction and possibly even obsession, and I’ll tell you, all of these things are very common and normal but it’s not love.

The most comforting thing is to realize you aren’t alone.

That’s right, there are hundreds of other guys that feel the same way that you do, hopelessly ‘in love’ with a girl and they don’t have the slightest clue on how to proceed in order to attract, seduce and make her fall in love with them. Don’t worry though, there’s hope and I’m going to show you how you can attract the girl of your dreams.

A simple model of love

If we were to over simplify an interaction between a male and a female, we’d have the following:
1. Man approaches the woman
2. Man talks to the woman
3. Man builds attraction
4. Man builds rapport, comfort
5. Man escalates the interaction into a more intimate one.
6. Couple falls in love

With this simplified model of human courtship in mind, where are you having problems? Some guys might be great at building comfort with a woman, but have no idea on how to build attraction. Similarly, you might be great at naturally building attraction, but you’re incapable of approaching and talking to women!

You might even look at this list and think: “Wow, well I need help with all of these!” Well that’s fine, so let’s just start the the beginning.

1. Approaching women

This is a skill you must have if you’re going to be successful on a regular basis with women. If you can’t approach women, then you’ll be stuck meeting ‘friends of friends, classmates and co-workers’ your entire life. Now this works well for some people, but it really becomes more of a game of luck rather than anything else. What happens when you see a beautiful girl you’d really like to talk to on the street, while you’re shopping… if you always rely on knowing a friend, it’s likely that you’re going to be missing out on a lot! Even within the same school or workplace, you’re likely not to have the same friends!

Now there are a lot of theories on approaching and all of them have their advantages, from direct approaches to indirect approaches, to using situational openers to opinion openers, from being completely open about your intentions to hiding them until the girl gets to know you better, all of these might work, it’s just up to you to figure out which one works best for you.

Personally, I love indirect approaches because I feel they are more natural. You get to know the person a little better before initiating a deeper, more engaging conversation with them. It might take a little more time, but then again, that’s the fun of it. It allows for flirting, slowly discovering the person and it’s the most comfortable approach for both the guy and the woman.

An example of an indirect approach would be to initiate conversation for a reason other than the obvious one which is to get to know her better. For instance, if you were both in the juice section of the supermarket, you could tell her you have to leave soon, but you wanted to try out a new juice, what’s her favorite juice?

It’s a simple question about juice, and the major pitfall of an indirect approach is that you don’t indicate any interest in her, but rather in the juice itself. So if you don’t follow up with something a little more personal, she’ll never know that you’re attracted to her. However, it’s a very low risk approach and relatively natural as well. It gets the conversation going, and from there, you need to steer it in the right direction in order to get to know her better.

Remember, if you start with an indirect approach, you must eventually make your intentions clear! Although some girls might immediately know that you approached them for a reason, the whole point of the indirect approach is to not immediately signal your interest. So keep the conversation going after you’ve initiated the conversation, and then don’t be afraid to show interest! She eventually needs to know that you’re attracted to her, and this should be within the first five minutes of the interaction.

Of course, during this time, you should have had sufficient time to build attraction to yourself so that when she realizes: “Oh, this guy is interested in me!” She’ll be interested in you as well. The main man for building attraction in record speed is David Deangelo. He has a way of putting things in a way that’s so simple and obvious, it’s impossible not to learn. His book Double Your Dating is the one I’d recommend reading if you’re looking to build that attraction within the first 5 minutes of the interaction.

In the second part of the “I love this girl” series, we’ll talk about how to talk to woman that you’ve just met using an indirect opener. This should give you some great insights on what to say after you’ve said hello.

Holy! Seriously… I didn’t have any respect for CNN before, but this takes the cake. They have some crazed woman that wrote an article on how ‘not to dump a guy‘. (well at least it follows the negativity of CNN spirit)

Never mind the article is horrible… but what makes it even worse is that they present it as an actual news article. If you look at the top right, you have the important “STORY HIGHLIGHTS”

- There are no fun ways to break up with a guy, but don’t be cruel about it
- E-mails and text messages are tacky ways to deliver bad news
- Avoiding a soon-to-be ex is popular, but should be used only when he’s scary

It’s funny, because usually when I see story highlights like that… there’s a war going on and they are giving critical life and death information. Here’s one of the “high quality” tips she gives:

I H8 U. Text message breakups are tacky and should not be utilized by anyone over the age of twelve.

Gee Thanks. Good job CNN!

Original article

So now I don’t usually post about other people’s blogs… but this is one that you guys should definitely check out. His name is Alex Coulson’s and he has one of the FEW quality blogs on dating tips for men.

I’ve been reading some of his posts, and his style is along the lines of AskMen & Maxim with a little more substance. One of the articles I really enjoyed from him is the one on how to start a conversation with a woman.

Conversation isn’t a guy thing. We do well to grunt in the same language as women. Why use words when a few well placed moves and a couple of meaningful looks will do? When it comes to talking and the art of having a conversation almost everyone knows this is the domain of women.

Update! It appears his site is dead! Never mind!

You have the personality. You have all the tactics and routines. You have everything you’ll ever need to seal the deal. Yet, unless you know how to get a girl’s attention, everything you’ve been working on will be useless. So here’s the question – how can you get her attention?!

What women, and in fact most people in general, are attracted to is value. If a person holds value, they usually hold the attention of the room as well. However, when I talk about value, I’m not talking about simple monetary value – value reveals itself in many other forms, not all of which are tangible.

One convention that is certainly popular among many people is that of “Peacocking”, or dressing in such a way as to attract attention from others. The term “peacocking” comes from the tailfeathers of a peacock. They serve no evolutionary advantage to the peacock, in fact being almost detrimental as they attract the attention of predators. Yet, the peacock is sending out a message to all potential mates out there – “I have this thing that is completely useless yet I’m still surviving strongly.” The peacock is essentially showing off its ability to survive despite such a detrimental trait.

Peacocking in people holds a very similar perspective. By wearing something outlandish and attention-grabbing in a place you wouldn’t normally wear it you will be conveying that you are capable of surviving in the social jungle even while wearing something that may potentially make you the target of ridicule by others. You stand out from the sea of other guys and as a result, women will be paying attention to you.

Another way that will definitely get you attention is your social circle. Think of it like this – if you were walking down the street, talking to Tom Cruise, you would definitely get the attention of women. You might wonder, “How can I use my social circle to get me attention if I don’t know anyone famous?” The key is to give value. If your group is the group being the loudest and having the most fun in the venue, girls will tend to gravitate to you. Girls want to be a part of the party, and if you are in the heart of the party, or even better if you are the heart of the party, then they will definitely notice you and want to enter your reality.

Your attitude can also help you can draw the attention of women. These women are constantly being complimented by orbiters and being held on a pedestal by guys everywhere. By revealing yourself to be a guy who is not looking to get anything from her and is not overawed by her beauty, you immediately show your value – a man who could possibly look after her and can be trusted to keep her safe should she choose you. Give her reasons to want to be with you in the way you act, both to yourself and others

These three examples are merely a few ways to show value out of the plethora out there. At a basic level, the way to get a woman’s attention is to stand out. It appears obvious but how many of us actually feel comfortable, stepping outside of what are considered “social norms” and having people paying attention to us all the time? If she is going to be paying attention to you, so are many others, and you must be comfortable with yourself regardless of who is watching you at what time and what you are doing.

I’m going to be trying something new… I think it could be fun and at the same time, very educational. I’ll be starting this so every Friday, before everyone goes, people can share ideas on what to in certain scenarios that you might encounter over the weekend. This way you’ll be better prepared for what might happen !

Here’s the game:
1. I pick a specific scenario in the field of seduction
2. You describe how YOU would deal with the situation via comment reply.
3. The AoS staff will pick the best one and declare the winner of the week.

Tonight’s scenario:

“It’s Friday evening, you’re walking on the street on your way to meet up with your friends at the local pub/club/bar. On the way there, you see an attractive blonde that seems a little lost… she’s alone and seems to be a tourist. What do you do ?”

Responses in the comments!

Listen, if you really want to know how to look good, just take a look around you and notice what you like in people. Then, notice the trends… you’ll start noticing that most good looking people have similarities that go beyond just what kind of shoes they are wearing. (although that’s important too)

I think many of us have been trained to look for the wrong things when we think of looks. It’s likely that you have an incorrect illusions about what you need to do in order to look good… but it’s not your fault. Magazines, media and friends have all forced their ideas about what beauty should be and what it shouldn’t… and with a little repetition, those notions kind of just ’sink in’.

While the fashion industry’s notion of beauty is wrong. The movie industry? Well… they sometimes get it, but I suspect that’s just the natural beauty of the actor or actress revealing itself.

In order to look good for the opposite sex, you must appeal to their desires.

If they desire you, then by definition, you are attractive to them. For example, women that appear slightly more revealing and easy going are usually seen as more attractive. “Of course!” you say, everyone knows that… but it’s the WHY that’s interesting. When women are more revealing, men have an easier time processing the idea that they could sleep with them… they just seem easier because they are closer to having less clothes! The clothes teases the mind, making the guy imagine what could possibly be behind.

This makes the woman seem much more fertile and therefore more attractive, on an instinctive level. To further this, the reason guys prefer women that wear heals is because they are already on their way to bending over forward, if ever so slightly. Subconsciously, they seem easier to sleep with to men because of the way they are positioned. As an added bonus, they appear taller, more slender and more submissive (this is the important one). The more submissive the woman, the more attractive she is to a man. Although I’ve seen women do crazy stuff on heels… they are usually more fragile and unstable, which is attractive to men.

So now… how can MEN LOOK GOOD ?

Well, for one, in order to be attractive to a woman, you must seem like a good mate. When she sees you, she must FEEL (not think… feel) that you are healthy, clean and dominant.

What are the indicators that you are a good mate?
Well, according to scientists that have studied beauty, symmetrical features (meaning your eyes, ears and eyebrows are at the same level on your face) is the biggest factor.

Great to know… but in my experience, that’s only a tiny factor.

What really makes you look good depends on a huge array of variables. This huge list really isn’t practical so I have summarized it for you, retaining only the most important aspects of physical beauty for men.

First, the general body appearance. Our minds have been programmed to associate smoothness with clean, healthy and properly maintained. That’s why, the most important thing you can do is to have smooth, non-wrinkled clothes.

If you’re a guy, and you don’t iron your clothes on a daily basis, then make sure you change that immediately.

When we see nice smooth, nice curves, we automatically associate beauty. That’s why Yoga sports wear looks so hot on women. That’s why, when you first buy clothes, it looks amazing. Once you wear it 2-3 times and it gets wrinkled, it loses it’s attraction.

Similarly, the same concept applies to cars. I know it’s a stretch, but imagine a wrinkled car… then imagine it brand new. Big difference right? The same thing applies to you and your clothes!

However, even if you iron you clothes and it looks smooth BEFORE you put it on… then that doesn’t mean it will look good WHILE you’re wearing it.

Your clothes has to look smooth and wrinkle free while you’re wearing it! That’s why guys look so good in brand new suits, they don’t have any wrinkles!

Some clothes are more prone to wrinkling than others… for example, if you own any baggy clothes, it won’t be smooth when you wear it. Baggy clothes form lumps of fabric and therefore, is horrible for smoothness. This is why fit shirts are much more attractive than loose shirts. The tighter fitting shirts will create a smoother surface as it curves around your body. This has NOTHING to do with being muscular, slim or even overweight. In fact, being slim and wearing baggy clothes is probably the worse thing you can do.

Same thing goes for pants, make sure they are completely wrinkle free and that they form smooth curves. Once again, this is why dress pants with a suit look the best… However, since most of you are going to be wearing jeans during the day, just make sure they are wrinkle free and they look new!

Note: An extra tip for jeans. Notice the back pocket. There’s usually a design on it. The nicer the design, the ‘hotter’ your jeans look. People don’t consciously notice this… but subconsciously, they do.

Second, make sure you have nice shoes.The most important thing is that the shoes are CLEAN and smooth. That’s why a lot of sneakers are generally regarded as non-attractive… it’s because of the laces and bumps on the shoes! (and that’s why super smooth sneakers are worth 300$) So when getting shoes, make sure you have smooth curves and that they are CLEAN!
Brand new 40$ shoes will be more attractive than 200$ shoes that are 1 year old!

Then nails, make sure your nails are trimmed.Women DO notice this and it’s a huge health indicator. They usually pay so much attention to their nails that they’ll end up checking out yours as well. Just make sure they are properly cut and trimmed.

Then we have hair… this is a big one. It’s VERY important to be very well groomed in this area as it represents (often very accurately) how much you take care of yourself. The worse being when you have a lot of hair in the back of your neck. It’s not the haircut that matters, but rather how recently it was done. When your hair is freshly cut, you instantly look better!

A general rule of thumb would be to get your hair cut every 2 weeks.

As for facial hair, make sure you maintain it daily! This is another huge health indicator. If you have any facial hair, it needs to be trimmed and/or shaved every single day. Trim those sideburns so they aren’t puffy!

Your skin is a huge health indicator as well. These days, getting a little sun will go a long way. Make sure you get enough sleep and get some sunlight every day. You don’t need to be tanned, but you need to look as if you go outside on a daily basis. Also, it’s usually a good idea to reveal a bit of skin. This makes you a more likely mate because you’re almost undressed! Skin is hot.

Then we have body posture.Body posture is a huge health indicator that women pick up on all the time. Don’t waste your time reading on body posture because there’s only one way to fix it: Go to the gym. Seriously. It’s the best thing you’ll ever do for your appearance.

Finally, the more dominant you are as a guy, the more attractive you will appear to women. Remember how I mentioned that submissive women are attractive? Well, it’s the opposite for guys. That’s why bigger guys can be very attractive to girls. When you’re dominant, you’re laid back and you feel huge. Don’t make the mistake of being angry… because then you look like a small barking dog.

The dominant guy will talk with a deep voice, move slowly and he’ll be there to protect others in the event of an emergency. Keep that in mind, assume the role of the dominant male and you’ll be regarded as hot by women. Knowing how to look good isn’t hard, but it’s something you have to work at on a consistent basis. Constant haircuts, trimming, new shoes and wrinkle free clothes are time consuming, but the rewards are worth it!

You look at her – the way her lips move when she speaks, the way her laugh sounds so joyous. That one special girl that’s always been different from all the others, the one that, you just know, will make everything all right if you could just be with her.

But how?

What can you do to end up with her?

It is this question that gets most people off their butts and start looking at how to be good with women. They want that special girl. The answer to their perceived problem though is not a simply cut one; to be good with a specific woman, you must be good with women in general. Getting the woman you want means you must know how to interact with women as a whole and know how to get them attracted to you, and getting good with women in general often means becoming a lot more willing to meet and explore new girls. In order to succeed with that one special girl, you must interact with other girls first.

Here’s a question to ask yourself:

If you had the ability to connect with any woman in the world, to be able to hook up or be in a relationship with any girl, would you still feel the same way about this girl?

Answer yourself very honestly. Chances are that you would want to look around and see what’s out there. The desire for that “one special girl” comes from a scarcity mentality, the belief that there is a limited pool of women out there who are nice to you, who like you and are attracted to you. Whenever you become attracted to a woman, your ego seizes the emotion and raises her up to be “the one”.

From a young age, we are taught that “true love conquers all” and that each and every one of us will find the girl that “completes” us. We are also taught that unless we are completed by our soulmate, our lives just aren’t worth as much. It’s no wonder that so many men go into every interaction looking to find their soulmate. The truth of the matter is that there is no “one”. You will have amazing times with them one night and nights where you are feeling at your lowest with them on others… and this will continue till your dying day. Look to have fun with them without looking to “complete yourself”.

Now, you might go an meet a lot of women and get to know them intimately and still decide that your original crush has more potential than these women. If you still want to try and get her, here are some things to keep in mind:

• Don’t treat her differently. A lot of men have the tendency to have “game” or a method that consistently attracts women, yet chuck it all out the window when they meet a girl “they actually like”. Seems rather counter-intuitive, doesn’t it – stop doing what’s been working so well for you so far to attract the girl you like more.
• Stop caring so much. Your life is not over because she doesn’t want you. There are plenty of wonderful women out there who are dying to meet you. There is no small pool out there – every woman is capable of loving and being loved by you. It may seem a bit Zen but only when you give up the desire for her will you actually stand to get her.
• Be a man. Hold onto your integrity. Too many people will change who they are to attract the woman they want. What you have to realize is that what a woman says she wants is not necessarily what she wants. She wants a man who she is free to be a woman around, a man who will protect her and be strong around her. To find that man, she will constantly test you, from asking you to do something excessive to acting bitchy towards you. React in the way you deem to be true to yourself – don’t act simply to gain her approval.

There are many reasons as to why men chase their elusive special girl. Yet, by placing her on a pedestal and giving her so much value, they are in reality limiting any chance they have. Adopt a philosophy of abundance – see your options as limitless and find the beauty in each individual soul. It is in this way that you truly solve the problem of that one special girl – by never having to worry about it again.

Over the years I have stumbled upon a lot of random girl tips with a lot of fluff and no substance. Often the same rehashed few pieces of advice are borderline useless, if not completely wrong.

Here I promise to cut the fat and present you the tips you’ll appreciate when interacting with women.

1. Be genuine in what you say, they’ll always know.

This is probably the hardest thing for people in our society to do. Everyone’s worried about image that they forget about being themselves and speaking their mind. In our fake plastic world, women CRAVE something real to hold on to.

2. Happiness is contagious, be happy.

Want your woman to be happy? Be happy yourself.
Don’t gloat about your happiness, or even talk about.. just BE IT. Like yawning, happyness is contagious and will make people happy to be around you.

3. Always grow, but grow in the same direction as your partner.

People change, and that’s good! You should evolve and constantly be improving yourself as well. It’s these small improvements that make us proud of who we are which is a very attractive trait to posses. If you already have a girlfriend, or a wife, make sure you grow together in the same direction for a long lasting, happy relationship.

4. Girls like to play

In every sense of the word, girls like to play. Sitting down on a chair for a 2 hour dinner is NOT fun. It’s much more fun to wrestle each other playfully. Try to get into the habit of playing more often and have less ‘boring life moments’.

5. Have a social life!

Girls are by nature very social creatures and social circles are very important to them. I once heard of a girl that stayed with her boyfriend for 2 years JUST BECAUSE SHE LIKED HIS FRIENDS. Breaking up with him meant that she wouldn’t get to hang out with them anymore, so she stayed with him mainly because of the friends.

A man that has a good social circle will always be more successful than one who is lonely. It’s not what you know, it’s who you know!

Now one of the final and most important girl tips is a trick that allows you to know EXACTLY when a girl is ready to be kissed. Using this trick, you’ll always move in at the right moment for the kiss. I found this tip in one of the most influential books of my life, Double Your Dating, which is a highly recommend read for anyone that really wants to know how to attract women and have them fall in love with you.