Hey, did you ever go out of your way to convince a girl of your personal qualities and assets? Take a date for example: she looks at you from the other side of her coffee mug with mixture of friendliness and waning interest as you tell her all about your job, your solid character and your possessions.

You see, what you are doing there is called qualification: you’re trying to qualify yourself to her. What most men don’t know is that this very process, if it happens the other way around, can be a major attraction trigger for a woman: once she has to actually work for your approval, she’ll get quite excited about you. Now, how do you get to a point where you are qualifying a girl?

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Shhh! I’ll tell you a secret. I’m good at people-watching. I was at a party yesterday, and I saw this guy chatting with a flirty girl: as I watched them, I could literally see a big red sign flashing in his head: “How can I compete against the other men in here to attract that flirty girl?” I’m sure this guy spends a lot of time wondering how to be attractive to women.

Let me tell you, he could nudge his attractiveness up quite a bit if he adopted the following reality: “How can the women here compete against the other GIRLS in here to attract ME?” The idea is that instead of chasing women, you should be working on getting them to chase you.

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If there’s one common re-occurrence in the world of dating, it’s the fact that seemingly all guys get to a point where they say: “There’s just this one girl… I love this girl, you have to help me!”. Unfortunately, most of the time these guys haven’t even talked to this girl yet! So let’s make it clear right now, if you’re in love with a girl and you haven’t talked to her yet, then it’s not love. It might be lust, infatuation, attraction and possibly even obsession, and I’ll tell you, all of these things are very common and normal but it’s not love.

The most comforting thing is to realize you aren’t alone.

That’s right, there are hundreds of other guys that feel the same way that you do, hopelessly ‘in love’ with a girl and they don’t have the slightest clue on how to proceed in order to attract, seduce and make her fall in love with them. Don’t worry though, there’s hope and I’m going to show you how you can attract the girl of your dreams.

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There is nothing more intimate than the human touch. In truth, we are just like dogs and cats – we love to be petted and caressed. However, there is a certain skill to knowing when and where to touch a woman, and this skill could be the difference between being the naturally sexy guy and the creepy, pushy guy. Here are some tips to help you use touch or kino effectively. (Kino is short for kinaesthetics which is the ability to feel movements and touch)

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So now I don’t usually post about other people’s blogs… but this is one that you guys should definitely check out. His name is Alex Coulson’s and he has one of the FEW quality blogs on dating tips for men.

I’ve been reading some of his posts, and his style is along the lines of AskMen & Maxim with a little more substance. One of the articles I really enjoyed from him is the one on how to start a conversation with a woman.

Conversation isn’t a guy thing. We do well to grunt in the same language as women. Why use words when a few well placed moves and a couple of meaningful looks will do? When it comes to talking and the art of having a conversation almost everyone knows this is the domain of women.

Update! It appears his site is dead! Never mind!

You have the personality. You have all the tactics and routines. You have everything you’ll ever need to seal the deal. Yet, unless you know how to get a girl’s attention, everything you’ve been working on will be useless. So here’s the question – how can you get her attention?!

What women, and in fact most people in general, are attracted to is value. If a person holds value, they usually hold the attention of the room as well. However, when I talk about value, I’m not talking about simple monetary value – value reveals itself in many other forms, not all of which are tangible.

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The Art of Seduction month of July article lineup started with an excellent article on kissing tips provided by our very own Razzputin.

After noticing that there were a LOT of guys that were really hung up on one particular girl in their life (we’ve all been there!), we produced an article directed just for you so can actually get that special girl in your life! In a way, the ending of the article might surprise you… it’s worth a read.

Finally, we have a guide on “How to look good” for men. Now it’s not your typical article (do we ever write typical articles here?) but it does provide a lot of good points that I’m POSITIVE have been overlooked by many guys. If you care about your appearance, then this article is for you.

Listen, if you really want to know how to look good, just take a look around you and notice what you like in people. Then, notice the trends… you’ll start noticing that most good looking people have similarities that go beyond just what kind of shoes they are wearing. (although that’s important too)

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You look at her – the way her lips move when she speaks, the way her laugh sounds so joyous. That one special girl that’s always been different from all the others, the one that, you just know, will make everything all right if you could just be with her.

But how?

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With so much tension riding on the first kiss, the last thing you want to do is mess it up, here are some of the top kissing tips to make your moment more memorable. Before we begin, consider that a kiss is the one act where your masculinity is on the line, where you put all the validation you received up in the air for the chance to move forward. There is no hard and fast rule to always getting a kiss but there are things that you can do to stack the cards in your favor.

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