I recently visited a comedy show where a number of stand-up comedians presented their material. It started out funny and stayed that good until the very end – with just one exception. Right in the middle of the show, this tall, burly guy came on. He had a bit of a hillbilly attire, with a loose plaid button-down shirt hanging over his rustic trousers. No, compared to the others, this guy wasn’t funny. Yet in spite of not being funny, he had us keeling over laughing after mere minutes. What made him stand out? There was his improvisational talent – and one simple, but incredibly effective technique that you will help you learn how to be funny with women.

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If I was to ask you for a definition of bouncing, which one of the following would you come up with: jumping around in a padded room, denying people entrance to a club, or changing a venue or location with a girl? If your answer is the last one, you’re on to an important skill with women: if you take a girl from one location to another, and it could be as little as different corners of the same room, you are creating an emotional impact. Never underestimate the importance of bouncing.

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My friend was rapt with this young lady he’d met. “She’s not only hot”, he said to me with enthusiasm glowing in his eyes, “but smart and funny too – AND she is into Anime as much as I am!” She was a great match, and I was quite happy for him. Imagine how sad I got when two weeks later, he told me he was losing her. What had happened? The answer was in the latest text message she had sent him: “I need a little time to myself…”

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Many think that playing a guitar in a rock band, and playing well, is one of the best and easiest tickets to getting laid, and, well, in most cases, that’s undeniably true. But consider this: I have a friend who’s always moody or sad. He has a great personality, he plays guitar all the time, in a band, and in front of audiences. He plays well. Yet, no booty for him.

What is he missing?

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No, seriously. We’re human beings – and we’re made to love, my friend. Nature intended man and woman to love each other. You’re probably shaking your head right now. Why is Brighty pointing out the freaking obvious to me?

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Bars, parties, clubs, even the streets: they used to be my daily and nightly scenes of disappointment, the places where I would gather up all my courage, talk to beautiful women, fail and get discouraged to even try again. It’s enough to spark that ever-present, debilitating approach anxiety that keeps you from talking to women more and more often. Like for most of us out there, it’s one of the meanest demons you have to defeat before you can become truly good with women: and one day to do it is by taking small, easily manageable steps. Here’s what you’ll learn if you start approaching one woman a day.

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The audience was in tears that night. No, we weren’t crying – we were laughing, because that woman was on fire. It was an evening at a comedy bar, and this female comedian’s delivery and vibe swept us away with laughter. Now fancy this: her jokes were actually pretty lame – but still, the guy after her couldn’t captivate us at all even though his punch lines were, objectively, much funnier than hers.

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Some spend their entire lives trying to figure out what women want from men, and it seems like a constant uphill battle. There are so many theories, stereotypes and role models, and how they clash with what we see around us! The media perpetuate the image of the self-made queen that demands respect from men, but in reality, women seem to want rude behavior and expensive gifts – or do they? We wreck our brains trying to figure it out – and in the process, everybody loses. But it could be so simple! Imagine a world in which women could simply be feminine, and men masculine. Today, let’s explore what that means.

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Hey, did you ever go out of your way to convince a girl of your personal qualities and assets? Take a date for example: she looks at you from the other side of her coffee mug with mixture of friendliness and waning interest as you tell her all about your job, your solid character and your possessions.

You see, what you are doing there is called qualification: you’re trying to qualify yourself to her. What most men don’t know is that this very process, if it happens the other way around, can be a major attraction trigger for a woman: once she has to actually work for your approval, she’ll get quite excited about you. Now, how do you get to a point where you are qualifying a girl?

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Shhh! I’ll tell you a secret. I’m good at people-watching. I was at a party yesterday, and I saw this guy chatting with a flirty girl: as I watched them, I could literally see a big red sign flashing in his head: “How can I compete against the other men in here to attract that flirty girl?” I’m sure this guy spends a lot of time wondering how to be attractive to women.

Let me tell you, he could nudge his attractiveness up quite a bit if he adopted the following reality: “How can the women here compete against the other GIRLS in here to attract ME?” The idea is that instead of chasing women, you should be working on getting them to chase you.

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