Shhh! I’ll tell you a secret. I’m good at people-watching. I was at a party yesterday, and I saw this guy chatting with a flirty girl: as I watched them, I could literally see a big red sign flashing in his head: “How can I compete against the other men in here to attract that flirty girl?” I’m sure this guy spends a lot of time wondering how to be attractive to women.

Let me tell you, he could nudge his attractiveness up quite a bit if he adopted the following reality: “How can the women here compete against the other GIRLS in here to attract ME?” The idea is that instead of chasing women, you should be working on getting them to chase you.

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“You reap what you’ve sown”. “Life’s what you make it”. Don’t you love those catchphrases that contain a world of value in just a few words? I have another one for you that is both easy to remember and powerful in its message: “stop needing, start wanting”. It’s time you take some steps to learn how to stop being needy: today’s article is about transforming it into a strong notion of “wanting”.

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You know that Green Day song “Nice Guys finish last”? When it comes to dating and women, this may be the most important thing you learn. Don’t be a “wuss”. Cuddly lapdogs may be cute and adorable, but if you’re the human equivalent, guess what: you are not getting laid. Today, I would like to add some extra vertebrae to your spine. Here we go: four new tips for your integrity.

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If there’s one common re-occurrence in the world of dating, it’s the fact that seemingly all guys get to a point where they say: “There’s just this one girl… I love this girl, you have to help me!”. Unfortunately, most of the time these guys haven’t even talked to this girl yet! So let’s make it clear right now, if you’re in love with a girl and you haven’t talked to her yet, then it’s not love. It might be lust, infatuation, attraction and possibly even obsession, and I’ll tell you, all of these things are very common and normal but it’s not love.

The most comforting thing is to realize you aren’t alone.

That’s right, there are hundreds of other guys that feel the same way that you do, hopelessly ‘in love’ with a girl and they don’t have the slightest clue on how to proceed in order to attract, seduce and make her fall in love with them. Don’t worry though, there’s hope and I’m going to show you how you can attract the girl of your dreams.

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There is nothing more intimate than the human touch. In truth, we are just like dogs and cats – we love to be petted and caressed. However, there is a certain skill to knowing when and where to touch a woman, and this skill could be the difference between being the naturally sexy guy and the creepy, pushy guy. Here are some tips to help you use touch or kino effectively. (Kino is short for kinaesthetics which is the ability to feel movements and touch)

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You have the personality. You have all the tactics and routines. You have everything you’ll ever need to seal the deal. Yet, unless you know how to get a girl’s attention, everything you’ve been working on will be useless. So here’s the question – how can you get her attention?!

What women, and in fact most people in general, are attracted to is value. If a person holds value, they usually hold the attention of the room as well. However, when I talk about value, I’m not talking about simple monetary value – value reveals itself in many other forms, not all of which are tangible.

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The Art of Seduction month of July article lineup started with an excellent article on kissing tips provided by our very own Razzputin.

After noticing that there were a LOT of guys that were really hung up on one particular girl in their life (we’ve all been there!), we produced an article directed just for you so can actually get that special girl in your life! In a way, the ending of the article might surprise you… it’s worth a read.

Finally, we have a guide on “How to look good” for men. Now it’s not your typical article (do we ever write typical articles here?) but it does provide a lot of good points that I’m POSITIVE have been overlooked by many guys. If you care about your appearance, then this article is for you.

Do you often find yourself thinking… “Ahh what a great night but I should have kissed her” ? If so, then you’re not alone. It seems as if one of the biggest regrets that guys have during dates is not knowing when to make that move. It’s not your fault either, it’s a daunting task to dive in when you don’t know what’s going to happen!

Fortunately, there’s help. Here’s how you can live with the regret of “I shouldn’t have kissed her” instead!

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Listen, if you really want to know how to look good, just take a look around you and notice what you like in people. Then, notice the trends… you’ll start noticing that most good looking people have similarities that go beyond just what kind of shoes they are wearing. (although that’s important too)

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You look at her – the way her lips move when she speaks, the way her laugh sounds so joyous. That one special girl that’s always been different from all the others, the one that, you just know, will make everything all right if you could just be with her.

But how?

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