Shhh! I’ll tell you a secret. I’m good at people-watching. I was at a party yesterday, and I saw this guy chatting with a flirty girl: as I watched them, I could literally see a big red sign flashing in his head: “How can I compete against the other men in here to attract that flirty girl?” I’m sure this guy spends a lot of time wondering how to be attractive to women.

Let me tell you, he could nudge his attractiveness up quite a bit if he adopted the following reality: “How can the women here compete against the other GIRLS in here to attract ME?” The idea is that instead of chasing women, you should be working on getting them to chase you.

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“You reap what you’ve sown”. “Life’s what you make it”. Don’t you love those catchphrases that contain a world of value in just a few words? I have another one for you that is both easy to remember and powerful in its message: “stop needing, start wanting”. It’s time you take some steps to learn how to stop being needy: today’s article is about transforming it into a strong notion of “wanting”.

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You know that Green Day song “Nice Guys finish last”? When it comes to dating and women, this may be the most important thing you learn. Don’t be a “wuss”. Cuddly lapdogs may be cute and adorable, but if you’re the human equivalent, guess what: you are not getting laid. Today, I would like to add some extra vertebrae to your spine. Here we go: four new tips for your integrity.

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If there’s one common re-occurrence in the world of dating, it’s the fact that seemingly all guys get to a point where they say: “There’s just this one girl… I love this girl, you have to help me!”. Unfortunately, most of the time these guys haven’t even talked to this girl yet! So let’s make it clear right now, if you’re in love with a girl and you haven’t talked to her yet, then it’s not love. It might be lust, infatuation, attraction and possibly even obsession, and I’ll tell you, all of these things are very common and normal but it’s not love.

The most comforting thing is to realize you aren’t alone.

That’s right, there are hundreds of other guys that feel the same way that you do, hopelessly ‘in love’ with a girl and they don’t have the slightest clue on how to proceed in order to attract, seduce and make her fall in love with them. Don’t worry though, there’s hope and I’m going to show you how you can attract the girl of your dreams.

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You have the personality. You have all the tactics and routines. You have everything you’ll ever need to seal the deal. Yet, unless you know how to get a girl’s attention, everything you’ve been working on will be useless. So here’s the question – how can you get her attention?!

What women, and in fact most people in general, are attracted to is value. If a person holds value, they usually hold the attention of the room as well. However, when I talk about value, I’m not talking about simple monetary value – value reveals itself in many other forms, not all of which are tangible.

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I’m going to be trying something new… I think it could be fun and at the same time, very educational. I’ll be starting this so every Friday, before everyone goes, people can share ideas on what to in certain scenarios that you might encounter over the weekend. This way you’ll be better prepared for what might happen !

Here’s the game:
1. I pick a specific scenario in the field of seduction
2. You describe how YOU would deal with the situation via comment reply.
3. The AoS staff will pick the best one and declare the winner of the week.

Tonight’s scenario:

“It’s Friday evening, you’re walking on the street on your way to meet up with your friends at the local pub/club/bar. On the way there, you see an attractive blonde that seems a little lost… she’s alone and seems to be a tourist. What do you do ?”

Responses in the comments!

Listen, if you really want to know how to look good, just take a look around you and notice what you like in people. Then, notice the trends… you’ll start noticing that most good looking people have similarities that go beyond just what kind of shoes they are wearing. (although that’s important too)

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You look at her – the way her lips move when she speaks, the way her laugh sounds so joyous. That one special girl that’s always been different from all the others, the one that, you just know, will make everything all right if you could just be with her.

But how?

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With so much tension riding on the first kiss, the last thing you want to do is mess it up, here are some of the top kissing tips to make your moment more memorable. Before we begin, consider that a kiss is the one act where your masculinity is on the line, where you put all the validation you received up in the air for the chance to move forward. There is no hard and fast rule to always getting a kiss but there are things that you can do to stack the cards in your favor.

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Over the years I have stumbled upon a lot of random girl tips with a lot of fluff and no substance. Often the same rehashed few pieces of advice are borderline useless, if not completely wrong.

Here I promise to cut the fat and present you the tips you’ll appreciate when interacting with women.

1. Be genuine in what you say, they’ll always know.

This is probably the hardest thing for people in our society to do. Everyone’s worried about image that they forget about being themselves and speaking their mind. In our fake plastic world, women CRAVE something real to hold on to.

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