Cocky and Funny
So what is cocky and funny? The concept that’s been popularized by the famous dating book Double Your Dating has a lot men wondering exactly what it is and how to use it successfully to attract women.
In reality, it’s quite simple and quite self explanatory. The cocky concept is to be slightly arrogant, which sub-communicates that you have confidence.
An arrogant statement would be: “I’m the best”
A slightly arrogant statement would be: “I’m pretty good”
The problem with ONLY using cocky is that, if you ONLY use cockiness, it actually LOWERS your value. Coming off as a ’showoff’ or someone who’s “full of himself” isn’t going to help you with women any day.
This is why it is ESSENTIAL to mix cocky WITH the funny. You really can say anything, as long as it’s a joke. If it’s funny, then that cocky comment doesn’t have the same “I’m full of myself” air to it, because it’s just a joke! It does however, retain a hint confidence and is overall very attractive. Not to mention, funny is always great and creates a nice ambiance.
A cocky and funny statement would be:
“I’m pretty good… only on Friday though”
Adding mis-directional humor to the same comment removes the arrogance that would of otherwise been associated with the comment. The result ? You come off as funny AND confident, two qualities that are very attractive to have.
If done right, it’s fun as well! In fact, it’s SUPPOSED to be fun.
The concept of cocky and funny should be sprinkled throughout an interaction and works great! It’s something you can use right now to add that little extra spice to your conversations with women. Even though it’s amazing, it’s only a small part of the entire picture. In order to make cocky and funny 10x-20x more effective, you must combine it with the mind frame, body language and techniques contained in Double Your Dating, only then will it truly be magic.
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I hate full moons. (The Moon in orbit on a full moon)
Why?
It’s full of itself. (like vain)
Comment by Andrew — February 25, 2009 @ 6:22 pm
The shoes part isn’t really important. Well fitted shirts and pants are the most important. It is a really good idea to be funny when your cocky, or the girl won’t react well. Also if your muscular like me, make sure you offer them to touch your biceps and they’ll be impressed . I like wearing tight shirts because it brings out something I’m proud of . Also when you do flex, ask the female to show you her ” guns ” and act impressed . Then say a cute remark like ” wow, your stronger then me ” .
Comment by Bernie — April 17, 2009 @ 9:46 pm
lol@above – having muscles is good but has problems with preconceived views that women have of vanity. You can use it but it has to be done in a way that u don’t appear vain, its tricky cos it can seriously backfire with some girls. If a girl starts complimenting i turn it into a joke, seems to work a lot more as they don’t think I’m a guy that stares in the mirror all the time !!! ex: girl says nice chest – i switch it to “yeah but u know its a bitch trying to find a girl with a bigger one !”
Comment by Sal — October 26, 2009 @ 4:23 am