I was completely baffled and amazed. This guy looked like a beaten-up spider-monkey mutant. He walked into the bar and sat down right next to the hottest chick. Without hesitating, he started chatting her up, and in no time, he had her cracking up. I couldn’t bear not knowing what made this guy so awesome, so I moved closer to them. My jaw dropped: the jokes he was cracking were completely lame, and to top it off, he was offending her all the time. What the heck? Well, that was several years ago, and I was clueless. Today, I understand why the mutant was getting that girl’s affection so easily: he knew exactly how to make women laugh.

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I went out with one of the few guys at my office that are naturally good with women. I got to our meeting place and saw him standing outside, and I thought: “Man, this guy looks like James Dean”. His posture was upright, but relaxed, he was wearing a badass fitted black jacket with pockets and zippers, his hair loosely dangling over his forehead, and a cigarette casually stuck in the corner of his mouth.

If I were to learn how to become an alpha male over again, I’d probably model myself on that dude. Here’s why – and what you can learn from it.

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It’s not rocket science, really. It may often feel like it, but understanding women only “feels” impossible because you try to “think” your way around. What counts are the right emotions. Remember that old song “Try a little tenderness”? “You won’t regret it, young girls they don’t forget it. Love is their only happiness.” Your job as a man is to see a woman’s feminine nature and respond to it. That’s how you talk to women. You’ll be surprised how much women’s responses to you will improve when you stop tiptoeing around the emotions we all feel, and call them as you experience them.

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I recently visited a comedy show where a number of stand-up comedians presented their material. It started out funny and stayed that good until the very end – with just one exception. Right in the middle of the show, this tall, burly guy came on. He had a bit of a hillbilly attire, with a loose plaid button-down shirt hanging over his rustic trousers. No, compared to the others, this guy wasn’t funny. Yet in spite of not being funny, he had us keeling over laughing after mere minutes. What made him stand out? There was his improvisational talent – and one simple, but incredibly effective technique that you will help you learn how to be funny with women.

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I was getting my hand luggage checked at the airport when I overheard two staff members chatting: the first guy had just gotten married. The second one was happy for his colleague, but told him that marriage – no, that was not his thing. I jumped in, congratulating the first guy and picking up the second guy’s thread: “You’re not into marriage?”

He confirmed: “I don’t want that kind of commitment”. I looked at both of them as I picked up my bags: “Well, marriage is an institution, right? What really counts, though, is love.” Their faces lit up, and they gave me a big grin as I wished them a good day and wandered off. I had shifted their focus from the brain to the gut.

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Let me start by saying that I’m not the biggest fan of Love Systems in spite of them being one of the biggest companies in the world of pick up. That’s why I was a little hesitant to write this Daytime Dating review, because I feel as if the seduction industry is filled with cheap products geared towards making money rather than genuinely helping guys improve with women.

Since I prefer meeting women during the day time, I was quite intrigued when one of self-professed “day time gurus”, Jeremy Soul, decided to put a book out that concentrates exclusively on day game.

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I knew a guy in school who had trouble slowing down or behaving calmly about girls. He would sneak up behind them and poke them in the sides, gesticulate wildly when talking to them, or walk about at parties tickling every girl. The last time I saw him, he was 28 years old and a virgin. In case you’re wondering, yes, there’s a connection.  His whole demeanor around girls was, tragically, rather weird and repelling – and it all started with his body language. The way you communicate with your body is a major part of attraction, to the extent that it can make or break the deal: if you practice the right body language to attract women, the entire image you project will undergo a major shift. And you can practice anytime and anywhere. Let’s look at some main features to be aware of.

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If I was to ask you for a definition of bouncing, which one of the following would you come up with: jumping around in a padded room, denying people entrance to a club, or changing a venue or location with a girl? If your answer is the last one, you’re on to an important skill with women: if you take a girl from one location to another, and it could be as little as different corners of the same room, you are creating an emotional impact. Never underestimate the importance of bouncing.

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My friend told me a creepy story: one night, a guy followed her down the street in the middle of the night. He came up behind her, walking fast to catch up with her. As any sane girl would do, she tightened her pace to get away from him. “I was scared and annoyed“, she said. “I just wanted to mind my own business and get home.” The guy caught up to her and started asking her questions – what her name was, how she was doing.

Then he put his hand on her shoulder:

“Hey, I just want to talk to you!” She turned around fiercely: “Don’t touch me!” As she walked away, she heard him calling after her. “Can I have your number?” If you ever wonder how to ask a girl out, think of the blatant things this guy did wrong. Put yourself into my friend’s position. Now, read more to see how you can do it better.

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My friend was rapt with this young lady he’d met. “She’s not only hot”, he said to me with enthusiasm glowing in his eyes, “but smart and funny too – AND she is into Anime as much as I am!” She was a great match, and I was quite happy for him. Imagine how sad I got when two weeks later, he told me he was losing her. What had happened? The answer was in the latest text message she had sent him: “I need a little time to myself…”

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